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Had it with the way Hubby treats difficult child!!!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 107688" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Although I think it's VERY common, I don't think it's acceptable for any husband to make a child with problems seem "bad" OR to not participate in treatment. If it were me, I'd probably sit him down and tell him what *I* needed from him (recently did that with my hub). Then, if he sputtered or made promises I knew he'd never keep OR told me to leave) I'd leave and only return if he met my conditions. It's hard enough to deal with our "different" children than to have to deal with difficult child hubs too who make things worse. Sounds like you've had lots of patience with hub and he refuses to bend his mindset. Sometimes it takes something drastic to happen to get inflexible people to see outside their own little mindset. And sometimes that drastic action also lets us see that the relationship is in such sorry shape that it can't be mended. I think you need to do what's best for YOUR mental health as well as your son's. husband should be helping you around the house. I won't even go into the "wifely duties" thing...lol. I swear, men think they can treat us like dirt and that, just like them, sex is seperate and still desired. (((Hugs))) Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 107688, member: 1550"] Although I think it's VERY common, I don't think it's acceptable for any husband to make a child with problems seem "bad" OR to not participate in treatment. If it were me, I'd probably sit him down and tell him what *I* needed from him (recently did that with my hub). Then, if he sputtered or made promises I knew he'd never keep OR told me to leave) I'd leave and only return if he met my conditions. It's hard enough to deal with our "different" children than to have to deal with difficult child hubs too who make things worse. Sounds like you've had lots of patience with hub and he refuses to bend his mindset. Sometimes it takes something drastic to happen to get inflexible people to see outside their own little mindset. And sometimes that drastic action also lets us see that the relationship is in such sorry shape that it can't be mended. I think you need to do what's best for YOUR mental health as well as your son's. husband should be helping you around the house. I won't even go into the "wifely duties" thing...lol. I swear, men think they can treat us like dirt and that, just like them, sex is seperate and still desired. (((Hugs))) Take care. [/QUOTE]
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