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Had it with the way Hubby treats difficult child!!!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="ck1" data-source="post: 107709" data-attributes="member: 3767"><p>I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's really hard to be the constant mediator, that's how it is in my house as well. However, it is getting better. My husband needs to know that I am on his side especially when difficult child is wrong, but, our situation is a little different because my difficult child is older. Which brings me to my concern about your situation.</p><p></p><p>If you're having this much trouble when your son is eight. Wow! Watch out!! The teen years are even more challenging! I agree with the others that you really need to figure out what is best for you and difficult child. I wonder if your husband's constant nagging is contributing to your sons behavior? It's not like difficult child can't tell that husband is annoyed with him and it seems that nothing difficult child does is right, that's pretty hard on an eight year old.</p><p></p><p>My husband used to threaten to leave me whenever there was a problem with difficult child. I told him very clearly not to make me choose between him and difficult child because I would choose difficult child. I don't want our little ones growing up without their dad, but I brought difficult child into this world and I am the only one he can rely on, I will not let him down. husband has finally come on board and understands better now that difficult child has a disability and is not always in control of himself, feelings, or moods. </p><p></p><p>In my house, as long as husband knows I'm not "against him" that I'm for unity of my family, we have a lot less problems. But, it is a work in progress!!! I'm hoping you're able to find some peace very soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ck1, post: 107709, member: 3767"] I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's really hard to be the constant mediator, that's how it is in my house as well. However, it is getting better. My husband needs to know that I am on his side especially when difficult child is wrong, but, our situation is a little different because my difficult child is older. Which brings me to my concern about your situation. If you're having this much trouble when your son is eight. Wow! Watch out!! The teen years are even more challenging! I agree with the others that you really need to figure out what is best for you and difficult child. I wonder if your husband's constant nagging is contributing to your sons behavior? It's not like difficult child can't tell that husband is annoyed with him and it seems that nothing difficult child does is right, that's pretty hard on an eight year old. My husband used to threaten to leave me whenever there was a problem with difficult child. I told him very clearly not to make me choose between him and difficult child because I would choose difficult child. I don't want our little ones growing up without their dad, but I brought difficult child into this world and I am the only one he can rely on, I will not let him down. husband has finally come on board and understands better now that difficult child has a disability and is not always in control of himself, feelings, or moods. In my house, as long as husband knows I'm not "against him" that I'm for unity of my family, we have a lot less problems. But, it is a work in progress!!! I'm hoping you're able to find some peace very soon. [/QUOTE]
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