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Had it with the way Hubby treats difficult child!!!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="whateveryousay2007" data-source="post: 107716" data-attributes="member: 4265"><p>I've told husband from the beginning that difficult child was my #1 always. I told him I wasn't saying it to be mean or hurtful but he is the reason I do what I do.</p><p></p><p>If we were going to be married and make this family work he needed to understand it. he said he was ok with that. I would expect him to be the same way too.</p><p></p><p>Anyway...Vanderbilt has a very long wait time on a lot of it's services. Until all the evaluations are done I can't get any "therapy" or advice. My younger brother spent years in therapy and I already know what to expect. I know that husband won't go....I don't particulary care either. </p><p></p><p>I'm fed up in general with the way that he interacts with difficult child more than anything. It's hard to parent when I'm the understanding one and he only wants to discipline.</p><p></p><p>I'm to the point of telling him until he gets on the same page as I am or we can come to a mutual understanding on a parenting plan I'm going to be the disciplarian.</p><p></p><p>I can't see any other way around it. Yes....I think difficult child is smart enough to know that daddy yelling at him leads to mommy giving daddy the "leave hime alone" look.</p><p></p><p>I've gotten better about not responding verbally to husband in front of difficult child when he's going against what I'm trying to do. Which helps some. But....I don't want him on difficult child all the time either for things that aren't his fault.</p><p></p><p>In a perfect world difficult child wouldn't need to be corrected. But....it's not a perfect world and difficult child is far from perfect.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="whateveryousay2007, post: 107716, member: 4265"] I've told husband from the beginning that difficult child was my #1 always. I told him I wasn't saying it to be mean or hurtful but he is the reason I do what I do. If we were going to be married and make this family work he needed to understand it. he said he was ok with that. I would expect him to be the same way too. Anyway...Vanderbilt has a very long wait time on a lot of it's services. Until all the evaluations are done I can't get any "therapy" or advice. My younger brother spent years in therapy and I already know what to expect. I know that husband won't go....I don't particulary care either. I'm fed up in general with the way that he interacts with difficult child more than anything. It's hard to parent when I'm the understanding one and he only wants to discipline. I'm to the point of telling him until he gets on the same page as I am or we can come to a mutual understanding on a parenting plan I'm going to be the disciplarian. I can't see any other way around it. Yes....I think difficult child is smart enough to know that daddy yelling at him leads to mommy giving daddy the "leave hime alone" look. I've gotten better about not responding verbally to husband in front of difficult child when he's going against what I'm trying to do. Which helps some. But....I don't want him on difficult child all the time either for things that aren't his fault. In a perfect world difficult child wouldn't need to be corrected. But....it's not a perfect world and difficult child is far from perfect. [/QUOTE]
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