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<blockquote data-quote="omgwhy" data-source="post: 329560" data-attributes="member: 8683"><p>Thanks everyone,</p><p>Star, i was told and find it on the internet, that in NY, i am financially responsible for him. Ive seen 18 and 20 year olds before the judge, and the parent being told they are responsible to get the kid's lawyers. Yet, at 16 they are charged as adults, and go to adult jail, it confuses and frustrates me. I am also told you dont just kick someone out, you must have them legally evicted, so police will never escort someone out with-out that..</p><p> </p><p>His lawyer told me today, if my son refuses to go to rehab, he will continue on the criminal case, ie my son violating order of protection, and i said my son cant come back home, he said it was not his job to straighten out his homelife...I know this lawyer and my son want to place all blame on me, and im dreading this court on top of all the abuse..</p><p>the court said he can be homeless, they have no idea where to put him,</p><p>as in is it their obligation to give housing to released inmates, i dont think so. my son, was in a runaway shelter and was kicked out for using drugs, they never brought him to his outpatient rehab appts. either, and refused to speak with-me as my son has hepa privacy laws.</p><p> </p><p>my son threatens to take me to family court, obviously these people informed him that this state has child support laws till the age of 21.</p><p>To top it off my exboyfriend is telling me its because the boy hasnt seen his father</p><p>(alcoholic deadbeat that made no attempts to see them in 10 years),</p><p>and my girlfriend says my son's life was bad because of my divorce and that i became disabled...that really hurts me, i had no control of the disability, nor staying with my alcoholic, irresponsible husband, to deserve all this anger and abuse from my son..</p><p> </p><p>the worst part for me is i didnt teach my son to lie, steal, and hurt women.</p><p>i have yelled at him when he was bad and probably spanked him 10 times in his whole life...im a very patient person, it was almost impossible to not want to hit him, he was so mean and disrespectful, teasing and hurting his little brothers, and stealing their money, not a day went by there wasnt some type of conflict, with his bad moods, ive brought him to several doctors, any medication he got he tried to sell, snort, it's insanity, and he stole my medication, and told the dr.'s i told him to sell it, it was a nightmare they believed him, and called cps on me, this boy has learned some very bad lieing, from my x boyfriend, try convincing people he is lieing, and i feel like im having a heart attack, then he will smile at me, when they are not looking, ive had cps called 3x over this boy's troublemaking, and 3x from my vindictive x, i swear to everyone it was done to hurt me legally and psychologically i am very damaged from it,</p><p>they got away with it too...(its a smart mans way instead of beating you physically)...so yes my life has been quite a mess, with these 2 in my life...i fear they are not done...till i have the official nervous breakdown..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="omgwhy, post: 329560, member: 8683"] Thanks everyone, Star, i was told and find it on the internet, that in NY, i am financially responsible for him. Ive seen 18 and 20 year olds before the judge, and the parent being told they are responsible to get the kid's lawyers. Yet, at 16 they are charged as adults, and go to adult jail, it confuses and frustrates me. I am also told you dont just kick someone out, you must have them legally evicted, so police will never escort someone out with-out that.. His lawyer told me today, if my son refuses to go to rehab, he will continue on the criminal case, ie my son violating order of protection, and i said my son cant come back home, he said it was not his job to straighten out his homelife...I know this lawyer and my son want to place all blame on me, and im dreading this court on top of all the abuse.. the court said he can be homeless, they have no idea where to put him, as in is it their obligation to give housing to released inmates, i dont think so. my son, was in a runaway shelter and was kicked out for using drugs, they never brought him to his outpatient rehab appts. either, and refused to speak with-me as my son has hepa privacy laws. my son threatens to take me to family court, obviously these people informed him that this state has child support laws till the age of 21. To top it off my exboyfriend is telling me its because the boy hasnt seen his father (alcoholic deadbeat that made no attempts to see them in 10 years), and my girlfriend says my son's life was bad because of my divorce and that i became disabled...that really hurts me, i had no control of the disability, nor staying with my alcoholic, irresponsible husband, to deserve all this anger and abuse from my son.. the worst part for me is i didnt teach my son to lie, steal, and hurt women. i have yelled at him when he was bad and probably spanked him 10 times in his whole life...im a very patient person, it was almost impossible to not want to hit him, he was so mean and disrespectful, teasing and hurting his little brothers, and stealing their money, not a day went by there wasnt some type of conflict, with his bad moods, ive brought him to several doctors, any medication he got he tried to sell, snort, it's insanity, and he stole my medication, and told the dr.'s i told him to sell it, it was a nightmare they believed him, and called cps on me, this boy has learned some very bad lieing, from my x boyfriend, try convincing people he is lieing, and i feel like im having a heart attack, then he will smile at me, when they are not looking, ive had cps called 3x over this boy's troublemaking, and 3x from my vindictive x, i swear to everyone it was done to hurt me legally and psychologically i am very damaged from it, they got away with it too...(its a smart mans way instead of beating you physically)...so yes my life has been quite a mess, with these 2 in my life...i fear they are not done...till i have the official nervous breakdown.. [/QUOTE]
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