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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 182300" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Happy birthday to your big Boy!! Congratulations to you for raising him - I know a LOT of hard work was involved!</p><p> </p><p>As far as things being your fault, cut yourself some slack. If your younger son is emotionally abusive TO YOU then YOU are his VICTIM. It is NOT the Victim's Fault!!!!! If the counsellor says it is - GET A NEW COUNSELLOR!! While you can work to change how YOU interact with-younger child you cannot change what the younger child does. Only the younger child can change himself. You can stop allowing some of the behaviors, to a point. But you ahve to build up some strength first.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry you feel so emotionally exhausted. I know how that stinks.</p><p> </p><p>Sending hugs and soothing thoughts to help ease your troubled soul.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 182300, member: 1233"] Happy birthday to your big Boy!! Congratulations to you for raising him - I know a LOT of hard work was involved! As far as things being your fault, cut yourself some slack. If your younger son is emotionally abusive TO YOU then YOU are his VICTIM. It is NOT the Victim's Fault!!!!! If the counsellor says it is - GET A NEW COUNSELLOR!! While you can work to change how YOU interact with-younger child you cannot change what the younger child does. Only the younger child can change himself. You can stop allowing some of the behaviors, to a point. But you ahve to build up some strength first. I am sorry you feel so emotionally exhausted. I know how that stinks. Sending hugs and soothing thoughts to help ease your troubled soul. [/QUOTE]
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