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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 565804" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>DDD, you have to be sneaky in order to survive. Im sorry if anyone doesnt like it but that is simply the truth. What you are saying about your passing and leaving your daughter in charge of his portion is exactly what you need to do. And yes about the marriage...never, ever, ever say he is married. She can be his SO, his girlfriend, his old lady. Even his fiance. Not wife. Thankfully NC doesnt have common law marriages but many states do. Tony and I didnt have to say that we split finances 50/50 but that might have been for food stamps and I dont get them. Social security knows we live together but as far as they are concerned, he is just my boyfriend. I dont get any SSI though. Just straight SSDI.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 565804, member: 1514"] DDD, you have to be sneaky in order to survive. Im sorry if anyone doesnt like it but that is simply the truth. What you are saying about your passing and leaving your daughter in charge of his portion is exactly what you need to do. And yes about the marriage...never, ever, ever say he is married. She can be his SO, his girlfriend, his old lady. Even his fiance. Not wife. Thankfully NC doesnt have common law marriages but many states do. Tony and I didnt have to say that we split finances 50/50 but that might have been for food stamps and I dont get them. Social security knows we live together but as far as they are concerned, he is just my boyfriend. I dont get any SSI though. Just straight SSDI. [/QUOTE]
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