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We are definatly going to do the test. On one hand we want answers and on the other hand we dont want there to be anything. Obviously we are not in denial but since we have no true diagnosis at this time, our brains are not processing that this is a lot more serious than we had first thought. I am really trying to come to grips with it. Especially since noone else sees this behavior and everyone pretty much thinks that we are certifiable for thinking that anything is wrong with our child other than spoiling him or not "Disciplining"him. I would love for time out to work or redireting to work or yelling to work but it doesnt. He doesnt care. It is like he gets in this mindset and once he reaches rage status which is instantanious, you cant reach him. He is somewhere else. I dont know, I just want to figure this out so maybe we can enjoy life together. That is all I really want, to go to the park or just play with him but right now that is not possible.

<blockquote data-quote="Dara" data-source="post: 29790" data-attributes="member: 3572"><p>We are definatly going to do the test.&nbsp; On one hand we want answers and on the other hand we dont want there to be anything.&nbsp; Obviously we are not in denial but since we have no true diagnosis at this time, our brains are not processing that this is a lot more serious than we had first thought.&nbsp; I am really trying to come to grips with it.&nbsp; Especially since noone else sees this behavior and everyone pretty much thinks that we are certifiable for thinking that anything is wrong with our child other than spoiling him or not &quot;Disciplining&quot;him.&nbsp; I would love for time out to work or redireting to work or yelling to work but it doesnt.&nbsp; He doesnt care.&nbsp; It is like he gets in this mindset and once he reaches rage status which is instantanious, you cant reach him.&nbsp; He is somewhere else.&nbsp; I dont know, I just want to figure this out so maybe we can enjoy life together.&nbsp; That is all I really want, to go to the park or just play with him but right now that is not possible.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Dara, post: 29790, member: 3572"] We are definatly going to do the test. On one hand we want answers and on the other hand we dont want there to be anything. Obviously we are not in denial but since we have no true diagnosis at this time, our brains are not processing that this is a lot more serious than we had first thought. I am really trying to come to grips with it. Especially since noone else sees this behavior and everyone pretty much thinks that we are certifiable for thinking that anything is wrong with our child other than spoiling him or not "Disciplining"him. I would love for time out to work or redireting to work or yelling to work but it doesnt. He doesnt care. It is like he gets in this mindset and once he reaches rage status which is instantanious, you cant reach him. He is somewhere else. I dont know, I just want to figure this out so maybe we can enjoy life together. That is all I really want, to go to the park or just play with him but right now that is not possible. [/QUOTE]

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