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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 668133" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am f'inally getting it. As a pseudo mom, I am an introject into my sister's personality. She has used me functionally all of her life. She regulates her relationships with herself in the world by the way she thinks about me. </p><p></p><p>That is why my Mother felt she felt envy or need or love for me (without taking into account the other side of the coin). There may be all of that. But there is also the need to use me as a tool, like the universal remote, the need to control me, or the need to surpass me, because what I am or am not is so intrinsic to her essence. And beneath everything there is rage and hatred because she is conjoined to somebody she both loves and hates. </p><p></p><p>So, how is it that she is thriving now? </p><p></p><p>Thank you, Cedar.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 668133, member: 18958"] I am f'inally getting it. As a pseudo mom, I am an introject into my sister's personality. She has used me functionally all of her life. She regulates her relationships with herself in the world by the way she thinks about me. That is why my Mother felt she felt envy or need or love for me (without taking into account the other side of the coin). There may be all of that. But there is also the need to use me as a tool, like the universal remote, the need to control me, or the need to surpass me, because what I am or am not is so intrinsic to her essence. And beneath everything there is rage and hatred because she is conjoined to somebody she both loves and hates. So, how is it that she is thriving now? Thank you, Cedar. COPA [/QUOTE]
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