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<blockquote data-quote="scaredofhim" data-source="post: 619336" data-attributes="member: 17051"><p>Another thing I wanted to mention yesterday and forgot is SS's hygiene issues. Have any of you experienced this with your children? This has been a battle both at his bio mom's and here when we have him every other weekend. He absolutely refuses to take showers or brush his teeth at his bio mom's. When we have him we can get him to shower, but he spends literally two minutes in the shower, and doesn't used the soap or shampoo. He gets in, gets wet, gets out. Same with brushing teeth. Takes him 30 seconds. And he will not clean up after himself. There is always toothpaste all over the sink and he leaves his dirty clothes and towels laying on the floor. We have to repeatedly tell him to pick the stuff up and put it where it belongs. Needless to say, because of the lack of hygiene the child has a serious body odor problem and he doesn't care. He also keeps chewing on his hands and fingers constantly. Everything he touches get's all sticky because his fingers are always wet with saliva. But the thing that is really disgusting is that he gets urine all over the underneath part of the toilet seat when he goes, and feces too. And he doesn't bother to clean up after himself when he does it. I really don't know how a 12 year old can get urine and feces in the places he gets it on the toilet seat either. There will literally be dried urine all over the underside of the toilet seat and all over the rim and every the very back of the toilet by the tank. I don't know how it can get all over like that unless he is deliberately spraying it everywhere. Same for feces, it literally looks like it he purposely smears it everywhere. I talked to husband about it and he had a talk with him and told him the next time he messes up the toilet like that (he showed him the mess) he will be cleaning it before we take him back home. He didn't seem to like that idea, he said it was gross. And I told him yes it is gross and I am not cleaning up after you anymore. We will see what happens with that I guess....I am just so stressed out and frustrated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scaredofhim, post: 619336, member: 17051"] Another thing I wanted to mention yesterday and forgot is SS's hygiene issues. Have any of you experienced this with your children? This has been a battle both at his bio mom's and here when we have him every other weekend. He absolutely refuses to take showers or brush his teeth at his bio mom's. When we have him we can get him to shower, but he spends literally two minutes in the shower, and doesn't used the soap or shampoo. He gets in, gets wet, gets out. Same with brushing teeth. Takes him 30 seconds. And he will not clean up after himself. There is always toothpaste all over the sink and he leaves his dirty clothes and towels laying on the floor. We have to repeatedly tell him to pick the stuff up and put it where it belongs. Needless to say, because of the lack of hygiene the child has a serious body odor problem and he doesn't care. He also keeps chewing on his hands and fingers constantly. Everything he touches get's all sticky because his fingers are always wet with saliva. But the thing that is really disgusting is that he gets urine all over the underneath part of the toilet seat when he goes, and feces too. And he doesn't bother to clean up after himself when he does it. I really don't know how a 12 year old can get urine and feces in the places he gets it on the toilet seat either. There will literally be dried urine all over the underside of the toilet seat and all over the rim and every the very back of the toilet by the tank. I don't know how it can get all over like that unless he is deliberately spraying it everywhere. Same for feces, it literally looks like it he purposely smears it everywhere. I talked to husband about it and he had a talk with him and told him the next time he messes up the toilet like that (he showed him the mess) he will be cleaning it before we take him back home. He didn't seem to like that idea, he said it was gross. And I told him yes it is gross and I am not cleaning up after you anymore. We will see what happens with that I guess....I am just so stressed out and frustrated. [/QUOTE]
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