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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 620463" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>I'm so sorry this is going on, can't help but wonder if bio mom is in treatment? in my opinion she sounds like unstable bipolar (most single moms can't afford that kind of money for rewards/bribes) and if that is the case it might be best for her to apply for SSI disability for all 3 of them. </p><p></p><p>She won't have pressure of work (but still can if wants) and the whole family will have access to treatment. Do advise her if she does this when X DHs pay child support they will deduct from SSI check 60-90 days after support was received (it's not $ for $ but still can mess up a budget if don't plan for it).</p><p></p><p>I understand how frustrating this is for you and husband; finding that "sweet" spot between "it takes a village to raise a child" and "too many cooks spoil the soup" is going to be very difficult. I even feel sorry for bio mom, even though doing much wrong I've lived with 2 bipolar kids feeding off each other and tag teaming me (I wouldn't wish that on anyone). </p><p></p><p>Thanks for the update, will continue to pray for all of you.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 620463, member: 7170"] I'm so sorry this is going on, can't help but wonder if bio mom is in treatment? in my opinion she sounds like unstable bipolar (most single moms can't afford that kind of money for rewards/bribes) and if that is the case it might be best for her to apply for SSI disability for all 3 of them. She won't have pressure of work (but still can if wants) and the whole family will have access to treatment. Do advise her if she does this when X DHs pay child support they will deduct from SSI check 60-90 days after support was received (it's not $ for $ but still can mess up a budget if don't plan for it). I understand how frustrating this is for you and husband; finding that "sweet" spot between "it takes a village to raise a child" and "too many cooks spoil the soup" is going to be very difficult. I even feel sorry for bio mom, even though doing much wrong I've lived with 2 bipolar kids feeding off each other and tag teaming me (I wouldn't wish that on anyone). Thanks for the update, will continue to pray for all of you. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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