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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 335054" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Bean, what if you hadn't gone to pick her up after her bad trip?</p><p> </p><p>I agree with Crazy that it's useless to argue with them. Please check out the link she posted- those responses and "the bobblehead" have gotten most of us through the last few years.</p><p> </p><p>With Rob I stopped calling him and sat back until he called me. If he was disrespectful or obnoxious I either told him to change his tune or I'd hang up, or I'd make an excuse and hang up. It took a very long time for him to learn that I was just not going to tolerate it anymore. </p><p> </p><p>Caller ID is also critical. If we had ended a bad call and he called back, I'd ignore it. (and I'd probably post here to vent and to give me strength to continue to ignore it)</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, they get better by baby steps as we get better by baby steps in detaching. </p><p> </p><p>In the meantime....here's a big hug.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 335054, member: 29"] Bean, what if you hadn't gone to pick her up after her bad trip? I agree with Crazy that it's useless to argue with them. Please check out the link she posted- those responses and "the bobblehead" have gotten most of us through the last few years. With Rob I stopped calling him and sat back until he called me. If he was disrespectful or obnoxious I either told him to change his tune or I'd hang up, or I'd make an excuse and hang up. It took a very long time for him to learn that I was just not going to tolerate it anymore. Caller ID is also critical. If we had ended a bad call and he called back, I'd ignore it. (and I'd probably post here to vent and to give me strength to continue to ignore it) Anyway, they get better by baby steps as we get better by baby steps in detaching. In the meantime....here's a big hug. Suz [/QUOTE]
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