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<blockquote data-quote="Acacia" data-source="post: 755027" data-attributes="member: 19832"><p>Though the fear of another episode is justifiable, the fact that your son shows remorse and sees a psychologist are hopeful signs.</p><p></p><p>That being said, I think it is vital that you and your husband find a way to keep boundaries and to not enable. It is not your responsibility to open your home to your son now that he is an adult.</p><p>I have wanted to move far away from my DS, who is 34. He is difficult and not remorseful, and because of his attitude and outbursts I often walking on eggshells when around him. Because of that, no matter how difficult his circumstances, I will not allow him to live with us. </p><p></p><p>This is difficult stuff, but I hear you listening to and honoring your feelings, which can help you to set appropriate boundaries.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Acacia, post: 755027, member: 19832"] Though the fear of another episode is justifiable, the fact that your son shows remorse and sees a psychologist are hopeful signs. That being said, I think it is vital that you and your husband find a way to keep boundaries and to not enable. It is not your responsibility to open your home to your son now that he is an adult. I have wanted to move far away from my DS, who is 34. He is difficult and not remorseful, and because of his attitude and outbursts I often walking on eggshells when around him. Because of that, no matter how difficult his circumstances, I will not allow him to live with us. This is difficult stuff, but I hear you listening to and honoring your feelings, which can help you to set appropriate boundaries. [/QUOTE]
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