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He Doesn't Have a Clue...
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<blockquote data-quote="lizanne2" data-source="post: 298936" data-attributes="member: 7078"><p>Wow, I have read all these posts...and I hope that change comes for everyone in this family.</p><p> </p><p>I will report that I lost my relationship with a stepson from a similiar situation. No one was going to let him stay with me...out of spite. Well, now that 22 yr old step son is locked up. His road to getting to prison clearly laid out for him by his dad(my ex) and his biomom and the rest of the bunch. Oh, and the other step son was a difficult child whose principal at his Special Education placement said to me...."..you know, when he finally does snap, its you he is after." The hardest thing I ever did was leave that youngest step son behind. He cried in may car the day I left with my two kids. </p><p> </p><p>BUT IT WAS ALL ABOUT MY SAFETY AND THE LITTLE (BIO) KIDS SAFETY.</p><p> </p><p>At some point I moved forward for me and my kids. When I had decided, I just moved forward without involving anyone but the ones for whom I make decisions. I was actually quite pleasant to be around. And also absolutely devastated. But found some good support and moved on. </p><p> </p><p>This is not an easy road but.......</p><p> </p><p>And I am sorry I told so much of my story but...sometimes moving forward in those areas you can control is liberating.</p><p> </p><p>Keep us posted and stay safe........if you are not safe call the DV helpline...... they will talk with you for as long as you need.</p><p> </p><p>Thinking of you often.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lizanne2, post: 298936, member: 7078"] Wow, I have read all these posts...and I hope that change comes for everyone in this family. I will report that I lost my relationship with a stepson from a similiar situation. No one was going to let him stay with me...out of spite. Well, now that 22 yr old step son is locked up. His road to getting to prison clearly laid out for him by his dad(my ex) and his biomom and the rest of the bunch. Oh, and the other step son was a difficult child whose principal at his Special Education placement said to me...."..you know, when he finally does snap, its you he is after." The hardest thing I ever did was leave that youngest step son behind. He cried in may car the day I left with my two kids. BUT IT WAS ALL ABOUT MY SAFETY AND THE LITTLE (BIO) KIDS SAFETY. At some point I moved forward for me and my kids. When I had decided, I just moved forward without involving anyone but the ones for whom I make decisions. I was actually quite pleasant to be around. And also absolutely devastated. But found some good support and moved on. This is not an easy road but....... And I am sorry I told so much of my story but...sometimes moving forward in those areas you can control is liberating. Keep us posted and stay safe........if you are not safe call the DV helpline...... they will talk with you for as long as you need. Thinking of you often. [/QUOTE]
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