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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 505147" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you, Star. It gets frustrating. But where I live we are still in a depression. You can't even get a job at Burger King.</p><p></p><p>The school has a VERY close relationship with Child Protective Services and are often here. There is no abuse at the school. The kids are simply allowed to "express themselves" in any way they like and can't be corrected. In fact, we've had CPS workers come to talk to us for in services. They know the school philosophy. It's not unique in preschools anymore. My daughter-in-law used to work for a big day care chain and they used the same philosophy and she lives in Missouri. It's the "In" thing to do....conscious discipline. Not saying all schools do it...I am sure religious schools do not...but it's a popular fad that will fade and disappear. Letting a child masturbate or swear is not considered in any way child abuse. Not forcing kids to say "I'm sorry" if they bonk another child in the face on purpose is not child abuse. This is a good example, in my opinion, of how bad things get when the government runs them. </p><p></p><p>We have a really bad biter at school, very difficult child. Her aide has bite marks up and down her arms. After she started at the school, several mothers complained at the bus stop to me that their child was bitten. I gave them the standard answer that was to call the center's main office. One parent reported that the main office told her that she is free to pull the child out of school if she is unhappy. The parents don't pay to go to this school and it has daycare...nobody left the school because of her. She is still there. As you can tell I'm not a fan of places that are government run. They tend in my opinion to be very easy child and this program is the new easy child program around.</p><p></p><p>If I saw any child abuse at the center, I would certainly report it, job or no job. But CPS clearly defined child abuse and it is when a child is physically abused or sexually abused and they can only step in when you can prove it. Neglect can also be looked at, but our kids are not neglected. As far as their health and welfare goes, the staff goes overboard to make sure they are as safe as possible. But because of inclusion laws, all kids must be allowed to attend this school. We have a lot of kids with special needs. Most are sweet kids. Some are a danger to other kids. I've never really been a fan of inclusion when the child is violent, but that's not my call.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 505147, member: 1550"] Thank you, Star. It gets frustrating. But where I live we are still in a depression. You can't even get a job at Burger King. The school has a VERY close relationship with Child Protective Services and are often here. There is no abuse at the school. The kids are simply allowed to "express themselves" in any way they like and can't be corrected. In fact, we've had CPS workers come to talk to us for in services. They know the school philosophy. It's not unique in preschools anymore. My daughter-in-law used to work for a big day care chain and they used the same philosophy and she lives in Missouri. It's the "In" thing to do....conscious discipline. Not saying all schools do it...I am sure religious schools do not...but it's a popular fad that will fade and disappear. Letting a child masturbate or swear is not considered in any way child abuse. Not forcing kids to say "I'm sorry" if they bonk another child in the face on purpose is not child abuse. This is a good example, in my opinion, of how bad things get when the government runs them. We have a really bad biter at school, very difficult child. Her aide has bite marks up and down her arms. After she started at the school, several mothers complained at the bus stop to me that their child was bitten. I gave them the standard answer that was to call the center's main office. One parent reported that the main office told her that she is free to pull the child out of school if she is unhappy. The parents don't pay to go to this school and it has daycare...nobody left the school because of her. She is still there. As you can tell I'm not a fan of places that are government run. They tend in my opinion to be very easy child and this program is the new easy child program around. If I saw any child abuse at the center, I would certainly report it, job or no job. But CPS clearly defined child abuse and it is when a child is physically abused or sexually abused and they can only step in when you can prove it. Neglect can also be looked at, but our kids are not neglected. As far as their health and welfare goes, the staff goes overboard to make sure they are as safe as possible. But because of inclusion laws, all kids must be allowed to attend this school. We have a lot of kids with special needs. Most are sweet kids. Some are a danger to other kids. I've never really been a fan of inclusion when the child is violent, but that's not my call. [/QUOTE]
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