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He stole over $1000 dollars from us after we stupidly let him back in!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 699588" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Sounds like you did great, but I would change the locks.</p><p></p><p>I am not going to pretend my Difficult Child is a criminal in jail, bit he's really hard to talk to and stole from ex and I not sure he never broke the law. I have detached to the point where he can call.me a stupid FB (and that doesn't stand for Facebook-) or a useless B and hang up on me and I can just shrug it off afterward with no more than minor irritation.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It's who he is. It's how he talks even to the few family he still is fortunate enough to have contact with, my ex and me. The consequences will hit him when the two of us are gone and his son is a teen and wants to be with his friends. He abused Princess so bad when he was a teen and she was still little that she doesn't want him around. Sonic and Jumper are so much younger and all they know is that he yells and swears at me. They can hear him over my phone.</p><p></p><p>Jumper asked why I even talk to him.</p><p></p><p>Our kids will learn, whether or not we want them to, that their ways don't work.</p><p></p><p>Part of the consequence is that even we, the parents, know not to take them seriously. Eventually most do detach.</p><p></p><p>Hopefully some learn</p><p>My son wont as he sees nothing wrong with his behavior, but others may. I hope yours is one who does.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 699588, member: 1550"] Sounds like you did great, but I would change the locks. I am not going to pretend my Difficult Child is a criminal in jail, bit he's really hard to talk to and stole from ex and I not sure he never broke the law. I have detached to the point where he can call.me a stupid FB (and that doesn't stand for Facebook-) or a useless B and hang up on me and I can just shrug it off afterward with no more than minor irritation. It's who he is. It's how he talks even to the few family he still is fortunate enough to have contact with, my ex and me. The consequences will hit him when the two of us are gone and his son is a teen and wants to be with his friends. He abused Princess so bad when he was a teen and she was still little that she doesn't want him around. Sonic and Jumper are so much younger and all they know is that he yells and swears at me. They can hear him over my phone. Jumper asked why I even talk to him. Our kids will learn, whether or not we want them to, that their ways don't work. Part of the consequence is that even we, the parents, know not to take them seriously. Eventually most do detach. Hopefully some learn My son wont as he sees nothing wrong with his behavior, but others may. I hope yours is one who does. [/QUOTE]
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