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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663254" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Every time I relent, I regret it.</p><p></p><p>In our case, my son can be hostile and aggressive. He seems to do the exact opposite of what we want in terms of cleanliness or any other thing.</p><p>This infuriates me. Who is he to tell you about your own psyche. Right off the bat this sounds bad. Complete disrespect and invalidation. He could care less how you feel. He wants what he wants no matter what it costs you.</p><p></p><p>My son is the same. I think I have developed an ulcer from stress with my son. When I am around him more than an hour or two I have excruciating pain. Actually, I am getting it right now thinking about it. It used to just feel like acid was being poured down my esophagus. Now I double over. It only happens with him.</p><p></p><p>I would not let him over. I would try to learn not to tell him things that he can use against you to hurt you. He does not get a vote about your pain and PTSD symptoms. </p><p></p><p>My son will not be allowed again to stay at our home. Last time he broke a broom. He said it was an anger management technique so that he did not do something violent to us.</p><p></p><p>Take care of yourself please. Do not let your son hurt your spirit. That is not loving.</p><p></p><p>I will try very hard to take better care of myself, too. Thank you for sharing. It helped me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663254, member: 18958"] Every time I relent, I regret it. In our case, my son can be hostile and aggressive. He seems to do the exact opposite of what we want in terms of cleanliness or any other thing. This infuriates me. Who is he to tell you about your own psyche. Right off the bat this sounds bad. Complete disrespect and invalidation. He could care less how you feel. He wants what he wants no matter what it costs you. My son is the same. I think I have developed an ulcer from stress with my son. When I am around him more than an hour or two I have excruciating pain. Actually, I am getting it right now thinking about it. It used to just feel like acid was being poured down my esophagus. Now I double over. It only happens with him. I would not let him over. I would try to learn not to tell him things that he can use against you to hurt you. He does not get a vote about your pain and PTSD symptoms. My son will not be allowed again to stay at our home. Last time he broke a broom. He said it was an anger management technique so that he did not do something violent to us. Take care of yourself please. Do not let your son hurt your spirit. That is not loving. I will try very hard to take better care of myself, too. Thank you for sharing. It helped me. [/QUOTE]
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