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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 641052" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Sweetie, I have seen your posts on fb as well as here and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt what your husband meant. There were times, dealing with Belle, that I wasn't sure I could stay. I wanted to run, run, run far far away!</p><p></p><p>Then she left for almost a year. I thought it was going well. In fact that is when I got pregnant. She did come to visit and I could handle most of that. But then husband allowed her to come back. And Butch moved in, and back out. And honestly I was SURE that I was going to take Rose and leave. I only stayed because I couldn't save Pat, too.</p><p></p><p>Then Belle left again and we cut out toxic mother in law, then toxic father in law, closed the business, dealt with ex-partner and... It is SO much more peaceful now. We talk to Belle, go visit, send pics and recently a box of clothing but... I told husband that she was welcome to visit us as long as she had her life together, but she would NEVER live with us again, and if he allowed her to even spend a night without my OK I was gone and so was Rose. Pat is old enough, big enough, and has blossomed enough, to defend himself now. (FWIW, husband told me if I allowed Belle in, that HE would leave...)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 641052, member: 6705"] Sweetie, I have seen your posts on fb as well as here and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt what your husband meant. There were times, dealing with Belle, that I wasn't sure I could stay. I wanted to run, run, run far far away! Then she left for almost a year. I thought it was going well. In fact that is when I got pregnant. She did come to visit and I could handle most of that. But then husband allowed her to come back. And Butch moved in, and back out. And honestly I was SURE that I was going to take Rose and leave. I only stayed because I couldn't save Pat, too. Then Belle left again and we cut out toxic mother in law, then toxic father in law, closed the business, dealt with ex-partner and... It is SO much more peaceful now. We talk to Belle, go visit, send pics and recently a box of clothing but... I told husband that she was welcome to visit us as long as she had her life together, but she would NEVER live with us again, and if he allowed her to even spend a night without my OK I was gone and so was Rose. Pat is old enough, big enough, and has blossomed enough, to defend himself now. (FWIW, husband told me if I allowed Belle in, that HE would leave...) [/QUOTE]
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