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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 574359" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>[<em><strong>QUOTE=HaoZi;574324]The only thing I've every wanted for my kid is for her to become a happy, healthy, independent, productive (relatively speaking - at least able to support herself) person. </strong></em></p><p><em><strong></strong></em></p><p>This is all I want for my kids. I had no idea so many people were so interested in IQ. My two high IQ kids are miserable (both of my oldest two boys---35 year old toddler and 35 year old Chinese adoptee who left us). They aren't good people either. I wouldn't trade their IQ's for the wonderful traits of my other three children. I can't really relate to the wanting to have a bio. child crowd...maybe because I did have one and he is a PITA...lol. I never did care if my kids were bio. or adopted though; it was whatever happened first and I got pregnant first. I do feel for everyone though. I have had my own regrests that I consider shameful and would only post here. One, my biggest shame of all, is, "Should I have had a biological child with all the crapola in my family tree? He isn't happy and he he doesn't make anyone else happy." </p><p></p><p>I think all parents have some regrets. We just have more to regret, if that makes sense...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 574359, member: 1550"] [[I][B]QUOTE=HaoZi;574324]The only thing I've every wanted for my kid is for her to become a happy, healthy, independent, productive (relatively speaking - at least able to support herself) person. [/B][/I] This is all I want for my kids. I had no idea so many people were so interested in IQ. My two high IQ kids are miserable (both of my oldest two boys---35 year old toddler and 35 year old Chinese adoptee who left us). They aren't good people either. I wouldn't trade their IQ's for the wonderful traits of my other three children. I can't really relate to the wanting to have a bio. child crowd...maybe because I did have one and he is a PITA...lol. I never did care if my kids were bio. or adopted though; it was whatever happened first and I got pregnant first. I do feel for everyone though. I have had my own regrests that I consider shameful and would only post here. One, my biggest shame of all, is, "Should I have had a biological child with all the crapola in my family tree? He isn't happy and he he doesn't make anyone else happy." I think all parents have some regrets. We just have more to regret, if that makes sense... [/QUOTE]
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