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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 689275" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Your son is making decisions not to help himself. That will change when he changes his mind. </p><p></p><p>Are you making the same decision? Are you willing (no, not are you willing, because I know you are already willing...) but are you going to? Yes, that's is, are you really going to give up your own life for someone, even someone you love so very very much, who is choosing himself, not to claim a wonderful life. He is not choosing his highest and best life, and it is grieving you to almost death.</p><p></p><p>Are you going to do the same thing? </p><p></p><p>Don't do it. Don't make the same choice he is making. You know that is not the answer because he is the example to you, the most painful example possible. Can you see that?</p><p></p><p>We do what they do. I saw that finally. Then I worked to change myself.</p><p></p><p>Please, work to change. That is our only hope. And then, when something changes, something changes. They have a new chance to change when...and often because...we change. </p><p></p><p>Gentle, warm hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 689275, member: 17542"] Your son is making decisions not to help himself. That will change when he changes his mind. Are you making the same decision? Are you willing (no, not are you willing, because I know you are already willing...) but are you going to? Yes, that's is, are you really going to give up your own life for someone, even someone you love so very very much, who is choosing himself, not to claim a wonderful life. He is not choosing his highest and best life, and it is grieving you to almost death. Are you going to do the same thing? Don't do it. Don't make the same choice he is making. You know that is not the answer because he is the example to you, the most painful example possible. Can you see that? We do what they do. I saw that finally. Then I worked to change myself. Please, work to change. That is our only hope. And then, when something changes, something changes. They have a new chance to change when...and often because...we change. Gentle, warm hugs. [/QUOTE]
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