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<blockquote data-quote="Heavy hearted" data-source="post: 733279" data-attributes="member: 23067"><p>I not sure how to start my own thread. An update on my son. He texted me this morning with a simple I love you. I got frantic, the first thought that entered my was that he us suicidal. I immediately texted back and asked him "Are you ok" and " I love you". He texted back saying no, he's not ok. He spent the last of his money on food. He has no money left for gas to probation or money to pay his probation. Another piece of my heart has just shattered. I started texting back saying I will pick him up Thursday to take and pay his probation. I didn't send the text. I just sat there and thought.....what am I doing? What should I do? We had told him no more and if I send this text then I would still be an enabler. So after about 30 mins of going back and forth, I texted: what I am about about to text is one of the most painful things I have ever had to do. I cannot fix what you have done. After YOU chose to continue to use drugs, drinking and driving (after you almost killed yourself last time) ....we are cutting all ties. We cannot and will not get caught up in YOUR destructive world again. Yes, I am crying as I am typing, yes, it is about to kill me inside. You said you have friends that owe you money....call them. Beg for a ride. You will find a way, even if you have to sell all your belongings. My heart pours out to you right now, but I cannot fix this. You lost respect for us and </p><p>and we lost trust in you. Get on your hands and knees, pray with an open heart that God will provide.......I feel like a horrible mom right now!!!! This was the hardest thing I have ever had to do? Now I am questioning myself....was this the right thing yo do? He has not texted back, don't know if he will. Please, did I make the right choice? My emotions are a roller coaster ride in hell....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heavy hearted, post: 733279, member: 23067"] I not sure how to start my own thread. An update on my son. He texted me this morning with a simple I love you. I got frantic, the first thought that entered my was that he us suicidal. I immediately texted back and asked him "Are you ok" and " I love you". He texted back saying no, he's not ok. He spent the last of his money on food. He has no money left for gas to probation or money to pay his probation. Another piece of my heart has just shattered. I started texting back saying I will pick him up Thursday to take and pay his probation. I didn't send the text. I just sat there and thought.....what am I doing? What should I do? We had told him no more and if I send this text then I would still be an enabler. So after about 30 mins of going back and forth, I texted: what I am about about to text is one of the most painful things I have ever had to do. I cannot fix what you have done. After YOU chose to continue to use drugs, drinking and driving (after you almost killed yourself last time) ....we are cutting all ties. We cannot and will not get caught up in YOUR destructive world again. Yes, I am crying as I am typing, yes, it is about to kill me inside. You said you have friends that owe you money....call them. Beg for a ride. You will find a way, even if you have to sell all your belongings. My heart pours out to you right now, but I cannot fix this. You lost respect for us and and we lost trust in you. Get on your hands and knees, pray with an open heart that God will provide.......I feel like a horrible mom right now!!!! This was the hardest thing I have ever had to do? Now I am questioning myself....was this the right thing yo do? He has not texted back, don't know if he will. Please, did I make the right choice? My emotions are a roller coaster ride in hell.... [/QUOTE]
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