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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 723392" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I agree with Copa.</p><p></p><p>Having said that, I have four kids. Three never ever forget my birthday, in fact we get together for birthdays. My youngest even writes kind letters to me that make me cry on my birthday. And other days. And brags about her parents on FB</p><p></p><p>My 40 year old son always forgets. I expect this from</p><p>om his as he is only concerned with himsrlf and what is important to him and consideration for others who love him are not important to him. If this were an eight year old, it makes sense. But most of my sons considerable problems stem from his lack of considerstion and caring toward others. Most adult kids will care enough to be good to you, especially as you get older. Troubled adult children probably wont. They are child like in thought and often very me centric. It hurts them and it can hurt us in the little things they dont do. It is not true though that adult children are usually this selfish.</p><p></p><p>But we can get past it. Yes, take yourself on vacation nexy year. Or better....</p><p></p><p>Do you have other, considerate, arring loved ones/adult kids? If so, spend more time with them, less with daughter. Spouse too!</p><p></p><p>While gifts are given uncondidionally, nice healthy adult children like to let us know they love and apprdciate us and it is not unreasonable to be disappointed if they dont.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and find some hsppiness today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 723392, member: 1550"] I agree with Copa. Having said that, I have four kids. Three never ever forget my birthday, in fact we get together for birthdays. My youngest even writes kind letters to me that make me cry on my birthday. And other days. And brags about her parents on FB My 40 year old son always forgets. I expect this from om his as he is only concerned with himsrlf and what is important to him and consideration for others who love him are not important to him. If this were an eight year old, it makes sense. But most of my sons considerable problems stem from his lack of considerstion and caring toward others. Most adult kids will care enough to be good to you, especially as you get older. Troubled adult children probably wont. They are child like in thought and often very me centric. It hurts them and it can hurt us in the little things they dont do. It is not true though that adult children are usually this selfish. But we can get past it. Yes, take yourself on vacation nexy year. Or better.... Do you have other, considerate, arring loved ones/adult kids? If so, spend more time with them, less with daughter. Spouse too! While gifts are given uncondidionally, nice healthy adult children like to let us know they love and apprdciate us and it is not unreasonable to be disappointed if they dont. Hugs and find some hsppiness today. [/QUOTE]
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