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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 80709" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Here's another perspective. Maybe hs's jealous of his brother because he's normal. I used to pick on my little sister nonstop because I was so jealous that she seemed normal and had lots of friends. That did end when I was eighteen--I decided I wanted to be friends with her--but it was the reason I picked on her early on. She was the "good" kid and I was the "bad" kid. So that may be why he is picking on his brother.</p><p>However, he is twenty-two and should have to pay for the damage to your house. Is he still living at home? I'd seriously look into alternatives for him, then lay them out to him. If he doesn't listen to your rules, at his age I wouldn't let him live with the rest of the family. It's harsh, but sometimes it's the only thing that works. And when they're big and strong and violent (and punching a wall is scary for everyone) then in my opinion they get serious help, follow the rules, or do it on their own. He can ride his bike around town. It's good exercise. Now I don't know the whole story, but from this post this is what I get from it. And good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 80709, member: 1550"] Here's another perspective. Maybe hs's jealous of his brother because he's normal. I used to pick on my little sister nonstop because I was so jealous that she seemed normal and had lots of friends. That did end when I was eighteen--I decided I wanted to be friends with her--but it was the reason I picked on her early on. She was the "good" kid and I was the "bad" kid. So that may be why he is picking on his brother. However, he is twenty-two and should have to pay for the damage to your house. Is he still living at home? I'd seriously look into alternatives for him, then lay them out to him. If he doesn't listen to your rules, at his age I wouldn't let him live with the rest of the family. It's harsh, but sometimes it's the only thing that works. And when they're big and strong and violent (and punching a wall is scary for everyone) then in my opinion they get serious help, follow the rules, or do it on their own. He can ride his bike around town. It's good exercise. Now I don't know the whole story, but from this post this is what I get from it. And good luck! [/QUOTE]
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