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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 492783" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Hello and welcome. I am also a mom of substance abusers. Mine are males . In answer to your post: I do not think it possible for you to step in at this point without letting your daughter know that you saw her FB chat page. If you are trying to build her confidence in you this revelation could turn her away from you. On the other hand if you go to her in person and tell her that you got caught up in her page when you went to log off for her and that you saw things that make you concerned for her well being, she might listen. She might listen merely because you are being honest. It is a hard call. Do you think you can keep this a secret and never let it slip? I personally probably could not so just comming clean is probably what I woud do. I would be very apologetic and self flagulating in the process.</p><p></p><p>by the way when I participated in co-dependant counseling and a 12 steps program we were told that the higher power could be anthing we believed in. It could be within ourselves or it could be external, it could be the universe or the greek gods, etc. We were told it was not religion but rather spirituality.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 492783, member: 2315"] Hello and welcome. I am also a mom of substance abusers. Mine are males . In answer to your post: I do not think it possible for you to step in at this point without letting your daughter know that you saw her FB chat page. If you are trying to build her confidence in you this revelation could turn her away from you. On the other hand if you go to her in person and tell her that you got caught up in her page when you went to log off for her and that you saw things that make you concerned for her well being, she might listen. She might listen merely because you are being honest. It is a hard call. Do you think you can keep this a secret and never let it slip? I personally probably could not so just comming clean is probably what I woud do. I would be very apologetic and self flagulating in the process. by the way when I participated in co-dependant counseling and a 12 steps program we were told that the higher power could be anthing we believed in. It could be within ourselves or it could be external, it could be the universe or the greek gods, etc. We were told it was not religion but rather spirituality. [/QUOTE]
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