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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 413044" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Nomad put this much nicer than I did - and she added the detachment article. It is my hope that you were helped by my suggestions. Brash as they were, it's still my opinion that your son stole, he's taking advantage of you, and he needs to find accomodations elsewhere. </p><p> </p><p>I would ask you to ask yourself this question beacuse it is the one that helped me when I struggled with similar situations in telling our son to GET OUT. "If this were a stranger in your home? How many times would you have allowed him to steal from you before you called the police or told him to get out?" If you want your son to behave like anyone else. You have to start treating him like EVERYONE else. </p><p> </p><p>And so - we did. </p><p> </p><p>We threw him out, he's had to fend for himself - and I worried like everyone else what would happen - and it's actually been one of the best things I could have ever done for him. And us. </p><p> </p><p>Hope this helps - apologies for being so short. </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 413044, member: 4964"] Nomad put this much nicer than I did - and she added the detachment article. It is my hope that you were helped by my suggestions. Brash as they were, it's still my opinion that your son stole, he's taking advantage of you, and he needs to find accomodations elsewhere. I would ask you to ask yourself this question beacuse it is the one that helped me when I struggled with similar situations in telling our son to GET OUT. "If this were a stranger in your home? How many times would you have allowed him to steal from you before you called the police or told him to get out?" If you want your son to behave like anyone else. You have to start treating him like EVERYONE else. And so - we did. We threw him out, he's had to fend for himself - and I worried like everyone else what would happen - and it's actually been one of the best things I could have ever done for him. And us. Hope this helps - apologies for being so short. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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