Sue,
You bet your boots you need to get this in writing. I am sorry Boo was so "giving," but you need to get a Memo of conversation in the mail CERTIFIED tomorrow. Then you can at least feel better because you are a first class Warrior Mom--even if you are a sick one at the moment.
This incident is a really good example of how effective an educated parent can be. If you had caved in, they would just keep going and going (think Energizer Bunny) with the objective of pushing Boo out.
It is good news when people at the top feel uncomfortable or even ridiculous. One never knows if they are really as appalled as they seem to be or if they directed subordinates to harrass you in this way. Maybe you will never know--maybe you can tell by how quickly and thoroughly the nurse catches on to supervision provided to her.
I would still suggest an evaluation at their expense of whatever medical evidence they have that there is a choking hazard if this is EVER mentioned again. I hope it is not. What did the doctor say, pizza--yes, sandwiches--yes and on down the list? or just "Boo can eat food?" DUH....
I hope Boo is feeling better and having fewer diaper changes.
What a hassle that shouldn't have happened. Do NOT let your armor get rusty--they are on a push-out mission with Boo.
Martie :warrior: