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Help with logistics and mechanics of difficult children and chores
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 531913"><p>At 20, she needs to pull her own weight if she is living at home. Definitely a chore chart if that's what will make it register with her adhd. Coming home to dirty dishes makes me stabby. (In fact, I am looking at the dirty griddle left on the stove from my "mother's day breakfast" that H made yesterday. hmmmmm, thanks for the treat)</p><p></p><p>So, I would sit down with her and go over the list of things that have to be done so that you can live together as adults. And divide them up. And write them down and post. Keep it straightforward. It's not about you telling her what to do - it's about her sharing in the responsibility and the privilege of living in your home. As far as her room and her own stuff, if the door closes - just close it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 531913"] At 20, she needs to pull her own weight if she is living at home. Definitely a chore chart if that's what will make it register with her adhd. Coming home to dirty dishes makes me stabby. (In fact, I am looking at the dirty griddle left on the stove from my "mother's day breakfast" that H made yesterday. hmmmmm, thanks for the treat) So, I would sit down with her and go over the list of things that have to be done so that you can live together as adults. And divide them up. And write them down and post. Keep it straightforward. It's not about you telling her what to do - it's about her sharing in the responsibility and the privilege of living in your home. As far as her room and her own stuff, if the door closes - just close it. [/QUOTE]
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