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<blockquote data-quote="Wiggles77" data-source="post: 380654"><p>so, yeah...</p><p> </p><p>crazy child striked again tonight. Picked him up from after school care and he was in a BAADDD mood. Took him 20 minutes (and me crying in school parking lot) to get him into the car. Got home and took him another 30 minutes to come inside from the car.</p><p> </p><p>For 2 hours he was upset with me for various things... but showed his anger by punching me and throwing grass & dirt at me. And oh yeah dirty laundry. And mean names such as "ugliest mommy" "I hate you" "freaky" Stupid. I kept on locking myself in bathroom (we live in 1 bedroom) until I heard him calm down but would come out and he would start all over. Wasn't until I told him bedtime was approaching and we were not going to have time to read books that he calmed down (funny how they think).</p><p> </p><p>What I really don't get is him not showing any respect for authority. He thinks he can control anything. Like when I told him he had lost his tv privileges for the weekend he tells me he is just going to turn on the tv anyway. Or this morning I told him to put away his breakfast dish he told me we were not leaving the house until I (!) did it. Why is he so bossy? Why does he think he can control adults? He does this to the after school director at school, too.</p><p> </p><p>Weird thing is, I left his father when I was 5 months pregnant... showing similar tendencies... verbal abuse and smashing holes in tables and threatening me... I have him again in miniature form.</p><p> </p><p>Do you guys have any tips for reacting to this violence? At this point I would take ALL suggestions... today his hitting me got so bad I told him if he hit me 1 more time I would call police. It worked today but he is so curious about things I am afraid next time it will not work (he would do it just to see what a jail looked like).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wiggles77, post: 380654"] so, yeah... crazy child striked again tonight. Picked him up from after school care and he was in a BAADDD mood. Took him 20 minutes (and me crying in school parking lot) to get him into the car. Got home and took him another 30 minutes to come inside from the car. For 2 hours he was upset with me for various things... but showed his anger by punching me and throwing grass & dirt at me. And oh yeah dirty laundry. And mean names such as "ugliest mommy" "I hate you" "freaky" Stupid. I kept on locking myself in bathroom (we live in 1 bedroom) until I heard him calm down but would come out and he would start all over. Wasn't until I told him bedtime was approaching and we were not going to have time to read books that he calmed down (funny how they think). What I really don't get is him not showing any respect for authority. He thinks he can control anything. Like when I told him he had lost his tv privileges for the weekend he tells me he is just going to turn on the tv anyway. Or this morning I told him to put away his breakfast dish he told me we were not leaving the house until I (!) did it. Why is he so bossy? Why does he think he can control adults? He does this to the after school director at school, too. Weird thing is, I left his father when I was 5 months pregnant... showing similar tendencies... verbal abuse and smashing holes in tables and threatening me... I have him again in miniature form. Do you guys have any tips for reacting to this violence? At this point I would take ALL suggestions... today his hitting me got so bad I told him if he hit me 1 more time I would call police. It worked today but he is so curious about things I am afraid next time it will not work (he would do it just to see what a jail looked like). [/QUOTE]
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