Thank you all for your responses. I have read and reread them.
I had to leave early this am to take my horse to a specialist (good news there is not a bone chip!whew!) and my cell service cuts off about an hr away so difficult child has not been able to reach me.
He did leave a message at my shop and he did call my mom.
I have talked with husband and he said he would stand by whatever choice I made, but he doesn't want him home.
I am able to wipe the slate clean, but I realize I have to think of husband and easy child as well.
In reading the post you all have given me alot to consider and I think if he was ready to change he would be open to any assitance at all wether it be home or a halfway house.
I haven't called his po yet, really didn't know what to tell her about what I was going to do.
She had not written the pick-up order as of yesterday (more chances)so there is not any outstanding warrent yet.
I really am questioning if he called me to get me to pay the 75.00 that he has not come up with so he won't go to jail.
I hadn't
heard any thing from him and he knew it was due fri. and he
knew there would be a pickup order issued if he didn't pay
