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I like how Ant's Mom put it.. no hand up unless they are reaching up. Think about it. Your son is hanging off a cliff. You extend a hand but he does nothing to help push himself up. What happens? A) You can't hold him and he slips out of your grasp and falls. So now it becomes your fault. B) He pulls you over the cliff with him. The only way your son is going to be saved is in a team effort where he puts forth a genuine effort. Is he doing that? ((((HUGS)))) -RM

[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 17759, member: 2315"] I like how Ant's Mom put it.. no hand up unless they are reaching up. Think about it. Your son is hanging off a cliff. You extend a hand but he does nothing to help push himself up. What happens? A) You can't hold him and he slips out of your grasp and falls. So now it becomes your fault. B) He pulls you over the cliff with him. The only way your son is going to be saved is in a team effort where he puts forth a genuine effort. Is he doing that? ((((HUGS)))) -RM [/QUOTE]

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