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Here is my letter to Scott. Did I act too needy?
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 99097" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I also hope he softens enough to explain himself. I think your letter is needy only in that he has not given you the most basic consideration as to why he is so indifferent to you. </p><p></p><p>Your posts regarding Scott are <em>so</em> full of your pain. Having not heard from M for nearly four years, I know what you as a mom might feel. Having not spoken to my parents at various times for years on end, I can understand what he might feel. Neither of them are good feelings. </p><p></p><p>I hope that you will be able to talk to someone, a therapist or a friend or an adviser regarding how you can be at peace with your decision that the status of this relationship is in his hands. </p><p></p><p>I think if there would be anything in the letter that I would add - and it can be said at any time if ever given the opportunity - would be that whatever the relationship will be, it <em>won't</em> be this torturous thing that it is now. His wife should stop sending you notes if he doesn't want contact with you. They need to stop dangling this promise of a relationship in front of you. He should have the compassion to clarify with you your respective roles so that everyone can move forward.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 99097, member: 99"] I also hope he softens enough to explain himself. I think your letter is needy only in that he has not given you the most basic consideration as to why he is so indifferent to you. Your posts regarding Scott are [i]so[/i] full of your pain. Having not heard from M for nearly four years, I know what you as a mom might feel. Having not spoken to my parents at various times for years on end, I can understand what he might feel. Neither of them are good feelings. I hope that you will be able to talk to someone, a therapist or a friend or an adviser regarding how you can be at peace with your decision that the status of this relationship is in his hands. I think if there would be anything in the letter that I would add - and it can be said at any time if ever given the opportunity - would be that whatever the relationship will be, it [i]won't[/i] be this torturous thing that it is now. His wife should stop sending you notes if he doesn't want contact with you. They need to stop dangling this promise of a relationship in front of you. He should have the compassion to clarify with you your respective roles so that everyone can move forward. [/QUOTE]
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