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Here is my letter to Scott. Did I act too needy?
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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 99232" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>MWM~</p><p></p><p>As I have continued to think about your situation, I am struck by the fact that you differ in so many ways.</p><p></p><p>His 'faith' differs radically from yours.</p><p></p><p>You say that he is very materialistic. Your finances are more 'humble'.</p><p></p><p>He is Asian. You are not.</p><p></p><p>You are very family oriented. He obviously is not.</p><p></p><p>You desire close relationship/community. He obviously does not.</p><p></p><p>Under the best of circumstances these would be difficult hurdles to overcome in terms of relating to one another. Given his desire to practice "boundaries" - it is going to be really difficult to find common ground.</p><p></p><p>You have extended the olive branch so to speak. His Christian faith should compel him to honor his parents, and make peace at all costs.</p><p></p><p>It really is up to him at this point.</p><p></p><p>I do agree with you - it is time to grieve and let him go. You may need some professional help doing that.</p><p></p><p>God bless your mothers heart. May you find the peace you deserve.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 99232, member: 1545"] MWM~ As I have continued to think about your situation, I am struck by the fact that you differ in so many ways. His 'faith' differs radically from yours. You say that he is very materialistic. Your finances are more 'humble'. He is Asian. You are not. You are very family oriented. He obviously is not. You desire close relationship/community. He obviously does not. Under the best of circumstances these would be difficult hurdles to overcome in terms of relating to one another. Given his desire to practice "boundaries" - it is going to be really difficult to find common ground. You have extended the olive branch so to speak. His Christian faith should compel him to honor his parents, and make peace at all costs. It really is up to him at this point. I do agree with you - it is time to grieve and let him go. You may need some professional help doing that. God bless your mothers heart. May you find the peace you deserve. [/QUOTE]
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