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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 739795" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi UKMummy, oh boy, I just got a here we go again myself. It’s not easy, but I have to borrow from my well children’s example and say to myself “Consider the source.”</p><p>I haven’t seen good times in <em>years</em>. My two are still out there, well, one homeless, one in jail and according to them it is all <em>my fault. </em>These adult kids operate on an entirely different level. Don’t take responsibility for their own choices, expect us to step in and rescue them, don’t appreciate it, or move forward with their lives because they don’t own their choices. It is a giant pile of steaming <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/poop.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":poop:" title="poop :poop:" data-shortname=":poop:" />. Don’t step in it. </p><p> You can get through it. Your son can get through it. He has to learn somehow. </p><p>Grab on to your adult children who show you love and respect. I am sure, like mine, they have a healthy perspective of what’s going on. </p><p>Don’t allow him to throw it on you.</p><p>Breathe and trust in what you taught him. It is still there. He is young and can be resourceful. He has to want that more than you do. </p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 739795, member: 19522"] Hi UKMummy, oh boy, I just got a here we go again myself. It’s not easy, but I have to borrow from my well children’s example and say to myself “Consider the source.” I haven’t seen good times in [I]years[/I]. My two are still out there, well, one homeless, one in jail and according to them it is all [I]my fault. [/I]These adult kids operate on an entirely different level. Don’t take responsibility for their own choices, expect us to step in and rescue them, don’t appreciate it, or move forward with their lives because they don’t own their choices. It is a giant pile of steaming :poop:. Don’t step in it. You can get through it. Your son can get through it. He has to learn somehow. Grab on to your adult children who show you love and respect. I am sure, like mine, they have a healthy perspective of what’s going on. Don’t allow him to throw it on you. Breathe and trust in what you taught him. It is still there. He is young and can be resourceful. He has to want that more than you do. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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