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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 689391" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Lil. I feel like there are aspects that are similar in our situations. How do I explain? </p><p></p><p>I believe that the way that we are doing this, is somewhat similar. Call it what you like, I believe that we want our sons close, and we do not want to give up trying to support them to learn.</p><p></p><p>I believe our mates want this too. But in different ways, of course.</p><p></p><p>All of the wanting in the world on our parts does not change our sons, or does it?</p><p></p><p>I see incremental change, only that. And the cost to me is despair because close up and personal the costs are never commensurate to the gains. How could they be? </p><p></p><p>Through it all I get desperate about my son's health, that even as we go through all of this, he may be close to becoming ill, and dying....I try to put it out of my head because I panic, and then feel like pressuring him again about medical stuff...and we know what that led to.</p><p></p><p>I see that these our personal choices on our part, to stay in the game. </p><p></p><p>I want reassurance, I guess. From your vantage point, what do you see?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 689391, member: 18958"] Lil. I feel like there are aspects that are similar in our situations. How do I explain? I believe that the way that we are doing this, is somewhat similar. Call it what you like, I believe that we want our sons close, and we do not want to give up trying to support them to learn. I believe our mates want this too. But in different ways, of course. All of the wanting in the world on our parts does not change our sons, or does it? I see incremental change, only that. And the cost to me is despair because close up and personal the costs are never commensurate to the gains. How could they be? Through it all I get desperate about my son's health, that even as we go through all of this, he may be close to becoming ill, and dying....I try to put it out of my head because I panic, and then feel like pressuring him again about medical stuff...and we know what that led to. I see that these our personal choices on our part, to stay in the game. I want reassurance, I guess. From your vantage point, what do you see? [/QUOTE]
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