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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 155422" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Stands,</p><p> </p><p>I am very confused. Are you happy he is back in jail? Happy that you "followed the advice of those here who advised sending him back"? Happy for the peace in your home?</p><p> </p><p>I truly do not have any clue what you want. From your family, from us, or from yourself. It really is NOT important for ME to know what you want, but it IS important for YOU to know what you want.</p><p> </p><p>My question is why this one, law-breaking, destructive, violent, stealing child is MORE IMPORTANT than the other children you have? Because he is. That is the message all your obsessing over him sends, to us, and sadly, to your children. At least from the picture I have here.</p><p> </p><p>What safety plan did you have for your minor child's safety while the 24yr old adult who already has charges that he lead one minor into MAJOR trouble (then blamed it on the minor child to you) was in your home? What did you do to help your youngest child feel safe (because after his stuff was stolen he didn't, and it takes a LONG time to get over the feeling of violation that comes from having your home broken into and your stuff stolen) while you gave his older adult brother "one more chance"?</p><p> </p><p>You don't have any obligation to answer me. I really don't need an answer. But if you and your husband brought the oldest home without creating a safety plan for your youngest child (that the child was aware of and felt truly SAFE with), tehn you need to be facing that CHILD with apologies and concrete ways to make amends.</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 155422, member: 1233"] Stands, I am very confused. Are you happy he is back in jail? Happy that you "followed the advice of those here who advised sending him back"? Happy for the peace in your home? I truly do not have any clue what you want. From your family, from us, or from yourself. It really is NOT important for ME to know what you want, but it IS important for YOU to know what you want. My question is why this one, law-breaking, destructive, violent, stealing child is MORE IMPORTANT than the other children you have? Because he is. That is the message all your obsessing over him sends, to us, and sadly, to your children. At least from the picture I have here. What safety plan did you have for your minor child's safety while the 24yr old adult who already has charges that he lead one minor into MAJOR trouble (then blamed it on the minor child to you) was in your home? What did you do to help your youngest child feel safe (because after his stuff was stolen he didn't, and it takes a LONG time to get over the feeling of violation that comes from having your home broken into and your stuff stolen) while you gave his older adult brother "one more chance"? You don't have any obligation to answer me. I really don't need an answer. But if you and your husband brought the oldest home without creating a safety plan for your youngest child (that the child was aware of and felt truly SAFE with), tehn you need to be facing that CHILD with apologies and concrete ways to make amends. Susie [/QUOTE]
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