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He's been kicked out of the shelter
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 643412" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>But Lil, that IS THE POINT, can you give me one, just one other reason he would be doing the things he is doing? It certainly hurts him more than it hurts you so give me one reason other than he does it other than to beat you at the game that he does what he does? I am NOT saying he is a sociopath. I AM SAYING he is playing controlling and manipulative games. If you want to split the hair give a reason for doing so. Please understand this is not about right or wrong on your part or my part but to get you to think about what may be going on with your difficult child son. Is it he DNA? What is it that causes your son to consistently push your boundaries? What makes him behave in such a way to not follow rules that result in both his parents and a homeless shelter force him to the street? And then not being late to work is unimportant? What do you, in your heart of hearts think is going on with him? Where is that boy you raised and how did he get to this point? Of course these are not answers that I am looking for from you but to tell you even just answering those questions for any mother is going to be emotionally devastating. But again the solution is never going to be going backwards. The only real choice, and as painful as it is, is to put one foot in front of another and slowly move forward.</p><p>You wouldn't happen to be a Libra would you? Just saying cause they have a terrible time trying to find balance in all situations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 643412, member: 18366"] But Lil, that IS THE POINT, can you give me one, just one other reason he would be doing the things he is doing? It certainly hurts him more than it hurts you so give me one reason other than he does it other than to beat you at the game that he does what he does? I am NOT saying he is a sociopath. I AM SAYING he is playing controlling and manipulative games. If you want to split the hair give a reason for doing so. Please understand this is not about right or wrong on your part or my part but to get you to think about what may be going on with your difficult child son. Is it he DNA? What is it that causes your son to consistently push your boundaries? What makes him behave in such a way to not follow rules that result in both his parents and a homeless shelter force him to the street? And then not being late to work is unimportant? What do you, in your heart of hearts think is going on with him? Where is that boy you raised and how did he get to this point? Of course these are not answers that I am looking for from you but to tell you even just answering those questions for any mother is going to be emotionally devastating. But again the solution is never going to be going backwards. The only real choice, and as painful as it is, is to put one foot in front of another and slowly move forward. You wouldn't happen to be a Libra would you? Just saying cause they have a terrible time trying to find balance in all situations. [/QUOTE]
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