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He's been kicked out of the shelter
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 643537" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Lil, I do not think you are crazy, I think you love your son and are just trying to help him. As I said in my previous post only you and Jabber can say when you have really had enough. Your son is still pretty young and he just might get it together. If nothing else it will give you peace of mind that through the winter he will have a warm place to stay.</p><p>Have you given any thought to "rules" that will go along with the apt, like none of his friends can stay there. I do not think co-signing is a good idea because it leaves you on the hook if he doesn't pay the rent but I'm sure you have already considered this and that is your risk to take.</p><p></p><p>The only thing I can say to you is once you have put it out there that "this is it, no more" you really need to stick to it otherwise you are sending a message to your son that you can still be bargained with.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for updating us. Keeping good thoughts for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 643537, member: 18516"] Lil, I do not think you are crazy, I think you love your son and are just trying to help him. As I said in my previous post only you and Jabber can say when you have really had enough. Your son is still pretty young and he just might get it together. If nothing else it will give you peace of mind that through the winter he will have a warm place to stay. Have you given any thought to "rules" that will go along with the apt, like none of his friends can stay there. I do not think co-signing is a good idea because it leaves you on the hook if he doesn't pay the rent but I'm sure you have already considered this and that is your risk to take. The only thing I can say to you is once you have put it out there that "this is it, no more" you really need to stick to it otherwise you are sending a message to your son that you can still be bargained with. Thanks for updating us. Keeping good thoughts for you. [/QUOTE]
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