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He's coming home! And I'm both ecstatic and apprehensive
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<blockquote data-quote="LauraH" data-source="post: 742107" data-attributes="member: 22877"><p>The last time my son lived with me nearly put me in a mental hospital and very nearly ended my relationship with my husband (we were still dating) and it got even worse when he invited his then-partner to live with us. For months, that seemed like an eternity, it was continual drama, chaos fighting and no apparent way to make them leave. Because i rent my apartment I didn't have the authority to evict him, and my landlord said if he evicted my son and the partner he would have to evict me along with them. (I don't know if that's law or just the rental agency's policy) We're under different management now so who knows. The police couldn't/wouldn't make him leave because his ID had my address on it and he got mail here. Finally I basically bribed them with $500 to leave.</p><p></p><p>I have this fear that he will pull a similar stunt (he's had a couple of pieces of mail sent here and I'm wondering now if he was setting it up to move in permanently). I do not see this ending well. Either he will be homeless (and right now I really don't care if he is) or he will plant his toes in the sand and refuse to leave period. If I get evicted form the apartment I've lived in since 2007 and/or lose my husband I don't know what I will do. I'm praying it won't come to this but I have a feeling it might, at which point I will completely disown my son lock stock and barrel.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LauraH, post: 742107, member: 22877"] The last time my son lived with me nearly put me in a mental hospital and very nearly ended my relationship with my husband (we were still dating) and it got even worse when he invited his then-partner to live with us. For months, that seemed like an eternity, it was continual drama, chaos fighting and no apparent way to make them leave. Because i rent my apartment I didn't have the authority to evict him, and my landlord said if he evicted my son and the partner he would have to evict me along with them. (I don't know if that's law or just the rental agency's policy) We're under different management now so who knows. The police couldn't/wouldn't make him leave because his ID had my address on it and he got mail here. Finally I basically bribed them with $500 to leave. I have this fear that he will pull a similar stunt (he's had a couple of pieces of mail sent here and I'm wondering now if he was setting it up to move in permanently). I do not see this ending well. Either he will be homeless (and right now I really don't care if he is) or he will plant his toes in the sand and refuse to leave period. If I get evicted form the apartment I've lived in since 2007 and/or lose my husband I don't know what I will do. I'm praying it won't come to this but I have a feeling it might, at which point I will completely disown my son lock stock and barrel. [/QUOTE]
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