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He's coming home! And I'm both ecstatic and apprehensive
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742165" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi Laura.</p><p></p><p>I think you show a great deal of insight into yourself, which to me, is one key to changing, surviving difficult situations, and maintaining relationships.</p><p></p><p>Of course you are triggered by repetitive and unthinking actions by others, your husband and your son. That is human. And true of most of us. Your son coming home, and entering a space that has been the sanctuary for you and your husband, in the best of outcomes, could not have been easy. </p><p></p><p>I think one important thing is to forgive ourselves for our reactions, and to try to forgive others for their humanity and foibles, as well.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like the three of you are working this out as you go. It feels sad when we cannot get what we think we want. But if you think about it, everything is always incremental. What we get all at once, seems to never last.</p><p></p><p>Be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742165, member: 18958"] Hi Laura. I think you show a great deal of insight into yourself, which to me, is one key to changing, surviving difficult situations, and maintaining relationships. Of course you are triggered by repetitive and unthinking actions by others, your husband and your son. That is human. And true of most of us. Your son coming home, and entering a space that has been the sanctuary for you and your husband, in the best of outcomes, could not have been easy. I think one important thing is to forgive ourselves for our reactions, and to try to forgive others for their humanity and foibles, as well. It sounds like the three of you are working this out as you go. It feels sad when we cannot get what we think we want. But if you think about it, everything is always incremental. What we get all at once, seems to never last. Be well. [/QUOTE]
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