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Hey everybody, I'm told my difficult child is safe and stable, home tomorrow?!?!?!
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<blockquote data-quote="Farmwife" data-source="post: 382741" data-attributes="member: 8617"><p>Well, had fancy pants doctor even spared me 30 seconds of his self important time he may have saved just an ounce of my sanity. Of course I am just a lowly insolent peasant who should accept his word as if it were holy and need not question his dominion over my child.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p><p> </p><p>Stable on medications may be my criteria but the hospital and presuambly legal criteria is this:</p><p> </p><p>Stable= No imminent plans of suicide, homocide and no psychopathic something or other. </p><p> </p><p>So, if difficult child doesn't want to kill us we get to pick him up he's good to go. If he flips out in the parking lot and murders someone it doesn't mean he wasn't stable at time of discharge as long as it wasn't premeditated. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite5" alt=":confused:" title="Confused :confused:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":confused:" /></p><p> </p><p>So, have a hot date and a long drive tonight. Planning on the fly where I can keep "it" chained. Juvie is a no go because according to sheriff it is a very bad place, worse than big boy jail. Although difficult child is a monster at times he is ill and emotionally young for his age. Though he is large for his age I find it hard to place him in such circumstances when it was a medication mishap. it seems like punishing him for being ill because he couldn't control his actions. Maybe I'm wrong.</p><p> </p><p>Had to scrap plan's a through g. Now making plan h and i. Working on emergency and managment plan. Making therapy appointments and doing all last minute foot work. Too much to process all at once or post here but I am gearing up.</p><p> </p><p>On the bright side the sweet remorseful side of him came out at the therapy session. I know we have at least a couple month honeymoon stage. During that time I will be double reinforcing whatever stuff I have to rush through right now. don't get me wrong, I am set up just being super obsessive meticulous so we never get here again.</p><p> </p><p>Then there is Residential Treatment Center (RTC) as last resort. for now we have family who are begrudgingly taking him but it's a start until my Mom arrives in a couple weeks.</p><p> </p><p>Just so tired. Hate idea of another 2 to 3 hour round trip. Already had to go that far earlier for sonogram. I just wanted a bath, lots of yummy food and some sleep. I almost had a nice night planned. Maybe next year...</p><p> </p><p>*sigh*</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Farmwife, post: 382741, member: 8617"] Well, had fancy pants doctor even spared me 30 seconds of his self important time he may have saved just an ounce of my sanity. Of course I am just a lowly insolent peasant who should accept his word as if it were holy and need not question his dominion over my child.:raspberry-tounge: Stable on medications may be my criteria but the hospital and presuambly legal criteria is this: Stable= No imminent plans of suicide, homocide and no psychopathic something or other. So, if difficult child doesn't want to kill us we get to pick him up he's good to go. If he flips out in the parking lot and murders someone it doesn't mean he wasn't stable at time of discharge as long as it wasn't premeditated. :confused1: So, have a hot date and a long drive tonight. Planning on the fly where I can keep "it" chained. Juvie is a no go because according to sheriff it is a very bad place, worse than big boy jail. Although difficult child is a monster at times he is ill and emotionally young for his age. Though he is large for his age I find it hard to place him in such circumstances when it was a medication mishap. it seems like punishing him for being ill because he couldn't control his actions. Maybe I'm wrong. Had to scrap plan's a through g. Now making plan h and i. Working on emergency and managment plan. Making therapy appointments and doing all last minute foot work. Too much to process all at once or post here but I am gearing up. On the bright side the sweet remorseful side of him came out at the therapy session. I know we have at least a couple month honeymoon stage. During that time I will be double reinforcing whatever stuff I have to rush through right now. don't get me wrong, I am set up just being super obsessive meticulous so we never get here again. Then there is Residential Treatment Center (RTC) as last resort. for now we have family who are begrudgingly taking him but it's a start until my Mom arrives in a couple weeks. Just so tired. Hate idea of another 2 to 3 hour round trip. Already had to go that far earlier for sonogram. I just wanted a bath, lots of yummy food and some sleep. I almost had a nice night planned. Maybe next year... *sigh* [/QUOTE]
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