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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 683115" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi JJ, welcome to our group. I am glad you found us here. You have had some good reply's and yes, it can be a lot of information to take in. Remember, we are all trying to help and it's not a one size fits all so take what will work for you and let the rest go.</p><p>Don't worry about replying to each person right now, a general response is fine.</p><p></p><p>My son was diagnosed with ODD and I know all to well the out of control behavior. I was dealing with cancer treatments while dealing with my son. I can so relate to your wife's health issues.</p><p></p><p>Here is what I can tell you from my own journey. Your wife's health, and the mental well being of you, wife and son need to be a top priority. I know how hard it can be to try and do this when you have a tornado of chaos blowing through your lives. If you are able I strongly suggest getting some counseling for you and your wife.</p><p>This may be hard but I had to do it more than a few times and that is to call the police any time she damages your property or threatens you. If you can try and record her threats and outbursts to show the police.</p><p>My son was removed from our home because the court said he was a threat to us. The court would not have know this had we not called the police to have it documented.</p><p></p><p>Is your daughter doing drugs? If she is and they are in your house you need to report that to the police. Again, I had to do this with my son. The police told me if they had to come to our home and had found them without us calling we could have been held responsible.</p><p></p><p>As for the lawyer who said you cannot evict her, that just does not sound right. Disability or not, she is an adult and if you don't want her living in your home you should be able to make that happen.</p><p>I think you need to keep trying to find a lawyer that can really help you.</p><p></p><p>I wish we had magical answers for you JJ. None of this is easy but I can tell you that you can get through it. There are many of us here that have survived and gone on to live very good lives.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and let us know how things are going.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 683115, member: 18516"] Hi JJ, welcome to our group. I am glad you found us here. You have had some good reply's and yes, it can be a lot of information to take in. Remember, we are all trying to help and it's not a one size fits all so take what will work for you and let the rest go. Don't worry about replying to each person right now, a general response is fine. My son was diagnosed with ODD and I know all to well the out of control behavior. I was dealing with cancer treatments while dealing with my son. I can so relate to your wife's health issues. Here is what I can tell you from my own journey. Your wife's health, and the mental well being of you, wife and son need to be a top priority. I know how hard it can be to try and do this when you have a tornado of chaos blowing through your lives. If you are able I strongly suggest getting some counseling for you and your wife. This may be hard but I had to do it more than a few times and that is to call the police any time she damages your property or threatens you. If you can try and record her threats and outbursts to show the police. My son was removed from our home because the court said he was a threat to us. The court would not have know this had we not called the police to have it documented. Is your daughter doing drugs? If she is and they are in your house you need to report that to the police. Again, I had to do this with my son. The police told me if they had to come to our home and had found them without us calling we could have been held responsible. As for the lawyer who said you cannot evict her, that just does not sound right. Disability or not, she is an adult and if you don't want her living in your home you should be able to make that happen. I think you need to keep trying to find a lawyer that can really help you. I wish we had magical answers for you JJ. None of this is easy but I can tell you that you can get through it. There are many of us here that have survived and gone on to live very good lives. Keep posting and let us know how things are going. :staystrong: [/QUOTE]
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