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<blockquote data-quote="Feeling Sad" data-source="post: 683388" data-attributes="member: 19245"><p>Yes, you have to Iegally evict your daughter. The police will not help to remove her until you do.</p><p></p><p>I filed a restraining order with the courts for free. I went that route because of my son's extreme violence.</p><p></p><p>It can take several months to file an eviction. But, that also would have been free.</p><p></p><p>Go to your nearest county courthouse and sign up to see family help legal assistance at the courthouse. The service is free.</p><p></p><p>They advised me to file a restraining order with a move out order because he was dangerous and threatening my life. The domestic violence department helps you with all of the paperwork and you go in front of the judge, with them, to get your emergency restraining order. </p><p></p><p>The police then serve her with the emergency restraining order and the upcoming court date and escort her from the premises.</p><p></p><p>You then go in front of the judge a second time to finalize the order. Again, the legal assistants go with you. They help you all the way through the process for free.</p><p></p><p>If she comes back, they will remove her again, legally.</p><p></p><p>I had a mental health worker there to offer my son help on the day that they served him. Perhaps they could offer your daughter the shelter who could help to put her on the list for assisted housing or an apartment for the disabled in the future.</p><p></p><p>Evictions take months and they are able to stay in the house during the 3 to 4 months. My son would have become a lot more violent having the knowledge that I was going to evict him.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter does not have to be told until she is served with the restraining order. But with an eviction, she may stay in the house after she is served for several months while it is being processed. </p><p></p><p>I have 2 sisters,with schizophrenia, besides my son. I filed a 3 day quit eviction with one sister because she almost killed my father using hot water, bleach, and ammonia to kill her 'bugs' on clothes and bleach. He had a stroke and aspirational pneumonia from the toxic fumes. That is how they made mustard gas. </p><p></p><p>She Ieft without fighting it in court.</p><p></p><p>Go to the courthouse. They will help you. Get the doctor's written explanation of how the stress contributed to your wives heart attack. Get a doctor's explanation how your health is at risk with the stress and the need to take antianxiety medication. Your songs drinking is also a concern. Write a journal with her major threats and approximate dates. Include any police calls or hospital visits.</p><p></p><p>I was asked to write down the 2 most current violent episodes in detail for the restraining order. The last sheet was a general summary of your concerns.</p><p></p><p>You have the right to be safe. </p><p></p><p>Privately check into alternative housing for your daughter. A mental health worker can come to the house as a part of the menral health crisis team. Ask for crisis trained officers to serve her the paperwork. But, move forward now.</p><p></p><p>You DO NOT need an attorney. Yes, she is disabled, but she is an adult and is refusing treatment.</p><p></p><p>You have the right to be safe in your own home. Your son has the right to feel safe and not have to numb out with alcohol. The court also considered my youngest son who was 24. He slept with a knife.</p><p></p><p>Good luck. You will be successful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Feeling Sad, post: 683388, member: 19245"] Yes, you have to Iegally evict your daughter. The police will not help to remove her until you do. I filed a restraining order with the courts for free. I went that route because of my son's extreme violence. It can take several months to file an eviction. But, that also would have been free. Go to your nearest county courthouse and sign up to see family help legal assistance at the courthouse. The service is free. They advised me to file a restraining order with a move out order because he was dangerous and threatening my life. The domestic violence department helps you with all of the paperwork and you go in front of the judge, with them, to get your emergency restraining order. The police then serve her with the emergency restraining order and the upcoming court date and escort her from the premises. You then go in front of the judge a second time to finalize the order. Again, the legal assistants go with you. They help you all the way through the process for free. If she comes back, they will remove her again, legally. I had a mental health worker there to offer my son help on the day that they served him. Perhaps they could offer your daughter the shelter who could help to put her on the list for assisted housing or an apartment for the disabled in the future. Evictions take months and they are able to stay in the house during the 3 to 4 months. My son would have become a lot more violent having the knowledge that I was going to evict him. Your daughter does not have to be told until she is served with the restraining order. But with an eviction, she may stay in the house after she is served for several months while it is being processed. I have 2 sisters,with schizophrenia, besides my son. I filed a 3 day quit eviction with one sister because she almost killed my father using hot water, bleach, and ammonia to kill her 'bugs' on clothes and bleach. He had a stroke and aspirational pneumonia from the toxic fumes. That is how they made mustard gas. She Ieft without fighting it in court. Go to the courthouse. They will help you. Get the doctor's written explanation of how the stress contributed to your wives heart attack. Get a doctor's explanation how your health is at risk with the stress and the need to take antianxiety medication. Your songs drinking is also a concern. Write a journal with her major threats and approximate dates. Include any police calls or hospital visits. I was asked to write down the 2 most current violent episodes in detail for the restraining order. The last sheet was a general summary of your concerns. You have the right to be safe. Privately check into alternative housing for your daughter. A mental health worker can come to the house as a part of the menral health crisis team. Ask for crisis trained officers to serve her the paperwork. But, move forward now. You DO NOT need an attorney. Yes, she is disabled, but she is an adult and is refusing treatment. You have the right to be safe in your own home. Your son has the right to feel safe and not have to numb out with alcohol. The court also considered my youngest son who was 24. He slept with a knife. Good luck. You will be successful. [/QUOTE]
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