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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 439126" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>Welcome both of you. Lovelyboy, You have recieved some good advise from Andy. I may add that you and your husband may need some help learning to work together. It was of great benefit to my husband and I. Most children, and especially ours, can see the "chinks in our armor" faster than lightning. There is great power in being able to control your parents emotionally. I highly recommend coming together and also looking at the recommended booklist here on the site.</p><p></p><p>I also recommend that you not hide it from the family-this takes too much effort. You may find comfort from them. I also want you to be prepared for the lack of compassion and blaming that may come when you share. In the end, you will need help to get through this. You have found this site, and I hope you feel support as I have. I would also look for a support group or counselor that you can talk to, this has saved us many times. We just know that we we always need her, raising these children is hard work. Please keep us posted and also find time for yourself and your marriage, it will also be work to keep this healthy. Hugs to you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 439126, member: 11001"] Welcome both of you. Lovelyboy, You have recieved some good advise from Andy. I may add that you and your husband may need some help learning to work together. It was of great benefit to my husband and I. Most children, and especially ours, can see the "chinks in our armor" faster than lightning. There is great power in being able to control your parents emotionally. I highly recommend coming together and also looking at the recommended booklist here on the site. I also recommend that you not hide it from the family-this takes too much effort. You may find comfort from them. I also want you to be prepared for the lack of compassion and blaming that may come when you share. In the end, you will need help to get through this. You have found this site, and I hope you feel support as I have. I would also look for a support group or counselor that you can talk to, this has saved us many times. We just know that we we always need her, raising these children is hard work. Please keep us posted and also find time for yourself and your marriage, it will also be work to keep this healthy. Hugs to you! [/QUOTE]
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