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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 524010" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Every person deserves a chance and compassion. The father is the only one who can do it. Legally this stepmother has no rights to the boys. Also, everyone can get help and still live in separate settings. The fact that the two boys suffered severe and rather sad abandonment and abuse does not require Gavin to have to go through it with them. He is also a little boy whose world has been turned upside down by these two step-siblings. </p><p></p><p>Maybe a good solution is to live apart for a while and see if the boy's behavior and father's dedication to getting them serious help actually improves. I read about a schizophrenic girl (she was on Oprah too). Husband and wife have another child too. Since the schizophrenic girl can be dangerous to her sibling, the two of them have their own separate apartments and take turns parenting the schizophrenic girl. The siblings do not live together. </p><p></p><p>Step, I admire how you got in there with Jett and Onyxx! Trust me, I admire you a lot! However, you didn't bring any children into the home either. To me, that's the main issue...Gavin. Sounds like it is already affecting him in a bad way and, the fact is, nobody knows what the other boys have done to him or tried to do to him when nobody was looking.</p><p></p><p>To the original poster, I got your PM. Write anytime! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 524010, member: 1550"] Every person deserves a chance and compassion. The father is the only one who can do it. Legally this stepmother has no rights to the boys. Also, everyone can get help and still live in separate settings. The fact that the two boys suffered severe and rather sad abandonment and abuse does not require Gavin to have to go through it with them. He is also a little boy whose world has been turned upside down by these two step-siblings. Maybe a good solution is to live apart for a while and see if the boy's behavior and father's dedication to getting them serious help actually improves. I read about a schizophrenic girl (she was on Oprah too). Husband and wife have another child too. Since the schizophrenic girl can be dangerous to her sibling, the two of them have their own separate apartments and take turns parenting the schizophrenic girl. The siblings do not live together. Step, I admire how you got in there with Jett and Onyxx! Trust me, I admire you a lot! However, you didn't bring any children into the home either. To me, that's the main issue...Gavin. Sounds like it is already affecting him in a bad way and, the fact is, nobody knows what the other boys have done to him or tried to do to him when nobody was looking. To the original poster, I got your PM. Write anytime! :) [/QUOTE]
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