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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 525185" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I agree, and really I always look at it like this....</p><p>Bribery is what is done to have people do illegal or bad things...</p><p></p><p>What you are doing is teaching them that appropriate actions bring rewards just like a paycheck. Yes, the goal is to make things intrinsically rewarding, just doing for doing sake, but especially when just learning skills it is often hard work. Especially for a child who probably is wired differently (a difficult child, sigh)....</p><p></p><p>I think it is wonderful that you just set it up for all of them. I remember when my sister "got" a behavior plan for quitting biting her nails and my other sister got one to stop sucking her thumb I was actually jealous! My mom had to make something up for me. (should have made me clean my room but probably didn't, lol)</p><p></p><p>Doing it that way doesn't single anyone out and they become more of a team, pretty cool.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 525185, member: 12886"] I agree, and really I always look at it like this.... Bribery is what is done to have people do illegal or bad things... What you are doing is teaching them that appropriate actions bring rewards just like a paycheck. Yes, the goal is to make things intrinsically rewarding, just doing for doing sake, but especially when just learning skills it is often hard work. Especially for a child who probably is wired differently (a difficult child, sigh).... I think it is wonderful that you just set it up for all of them. I remember when my sister "got" a behavior plan for quitting biting her nails and my other sister got one to stop sucking her thumb I was actually jealous! My mom had to make something up for me. (should have made me clean my room but probably didn't, lol) Doing it that way doesn't single anyone out and they become more of a team, pretty cool. [/QUOTE]
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