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Homeless 46 year old daughter and a son in jail
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 698791" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I suggest not taking his calls. Why upset yoirself because he lies? Not getting involved in their drama, which they did to themselves. Is good for them and blissful for your mental health once you stop doing it. He isn't about to be killed. You know this, no matter what he says.</p><p>And if his deliberate story to scare you were true, what could you do to stop it? Nothing. But it's a manipulative lie. He is getting up there in years...he has had much time to figure out how to make you feel bad for his own mistakes. Don't participate in his sob story. He knows how to survive in jail. He knows how to get food and where it's open 24/7 so he doesn't freeze. He is playing sick games with your kind heart.</p><p></p><p>Don't let your not so young daughter act like she is helpless either. They are old enough to deal with their own self made problems without stressing out their older mom. Shame on them for not having any consideration for you. Seriously. These are NOT kids. They should leave you alone. You are at an age when most kids start to worry about their parents. I know my kids do. You are 66. Do they not get what this can do to you?</p><p></p><p>Keep doing things you enjoy!!!. That's in my opinion what you should do now. Limit how often you talk to your kids. It's not as if they will ask how YOU are doing or will bring you happy news. Be stingy with how much complaining time you allow them. I know bad things hsppeNed to others in your family...I am very sorry. But none of that was your fault nor could you have stopped it. Same with your kids. Their destiny is only in their hands.</p><p></p><p>Try to have a peaceful day and avoid the phone!!! Hugs<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 698791, member: 1550"] I suggest not taking his calls. Why upset yoirself because he lies? Not getting involved in their drama, which they did to themselves. Is good for them and blissful for your mental health once you stop doing it. He isn't about to be killed. You know this, no matter what he says. And if his deliberate story to scare you were true, what could you do to stop it? Nothing. But it's a manipulative lie. He is getting up there in years...he has had much time to figure out how to make you feel bad for his own mistakes. Don't participate in his sob story. He knows how to survive in jail. He knows how to get food and where it's open 24/7 so he doesn't freeze. He is playing sick games with your kind heart. Don't let your not so young daughter act like she is helpless either. They are old enough to deal with their own self made problems without stressing out their older mom. Shame on them for not having any consideration for you. Seriously. These are NOT kids. They should leave you alone. You are at an age when most kids start to worry about their parents. I know my kids do. You are 66. Do they not get what this can do to you? Keep doing things you enjoy!!!. That's in my opinion what you should do now. Limit how often you talk to your kids. It's not as if they will ask how YOU are doing or will bring you happy news. Be stingy with how much complaining time you allow them. I know bad things hsppeNed to others in your family...I am very sorry. But none of that was your fault nor could you have stopped it. Same with your kids. Their destiny is only in their hands. Try to have a peaceful day and avoid the phone!!! Hugs:) [/QUOTE]
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