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Homeless Son Gone Completely Missing
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<blockquote data-quote="jetsam" data-source="post: 699034" data-attributes="member: 20689"><p>The lies used to get me too . At first i would bite for the bait all the time.( My husband still does and i have to remind him who we are dealing with !) But after time i just got very jaded. I pretty much don't believe much he tells me anymore... that way if i find out something is actually factual I'm pleasantly surprised. It isn't easy to know fact from fiction with him since he has been lying for a lot of his life. Even as a child he would lie...I truly believe he would convince himself it was true..to the point of hysterical crying when he was younger He would have gone to his grave swearing it was true even when caught red handed. Now he is more sophisticated...he mixes truth with lie just enough to be believable (or so he thinks) But i regress, I totally understand not letting your guard down not even for a second to preserve your emotional wellbeing! I just feel so drained all the time from being on guard.</p><p>I don't know if i can ever get to a point of forgive or forget, but maybe some day, if he were to get some help , get under the care of a Dr. and get some counseling maybe......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jetsam, post: 699034, member: 20689"] The lies used to get me too . At first i would bite for the bait all the time.( My husband still does and i have to remind him who we are dealing with !) But after time i just got very jaded. I pretty much don't believe much he tells me anymore... that way if i find out something is actually factual I'm pleasantly surprised. It isn't easy to know fact from fiction with him since he has been lying for a lot of his life. Even as a child he would lie...I truly believe he would convince himself it was true..to the point of hysterical crying when he was younger He would have gone to his grave swearing it was true even when caught red handed. Now he is more sophisticated...he mixes truth with lie just enough to be believable (or so he thinks) But i regress, I totally understand not letting your guard down not even for a second to preserve your emotional wellbeing! I just feel so drained all the time from being on guard. I don't know if i can ever get to a point of forgive or forget, but maybe some day, if he were to get some help , get under the care of a Dr. and get some counseling maybe...... [/QUOTE]
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