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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752638" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>All of the kids who bring us here lack empathy. It is hard for anyone, let alone mothers, to deal with people who lack empathy. They are unable to love us the way we love them. Some people can not love. I personally don't think that all mentally ill individuals lack empathy. I believe this is the case mostly with Cluster B personality disorders (antisocial, narcissism, borderline) and substance abuse can block empathy temporarily.</p><p></p><p>People who lack empathy are never satisfying in relationships. Some can be cruel, even dangerous. Some are just unpleasant and don't care about the anyone outside themselves, including loving parents. And this wounds.</p><p></p><p>It is very hard what we learn to accept and sometimes try to see as normal. I don't believe that all of our kids love us but treat us terribly. I believe kids like Kay, who is really far from a kid, can not love. That is how she can treat us as she does. To me and my husband, we believe now that what you see is reality. Reality that can put me in fetal position as I cry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752638, member: 23706"] All of the kids who bring us here lack empathy. It is hard for anyone, let alone mothers, to deal with people who lack empathy. They are unable to love us the way we love them. Some people can not love. I personally don't think that all mentally ill individuals lack empathy. I believe this is the case mostly with Cluster B personality disorders (antisocial, narcissism, borderline) and substance abuse can block empathy temporarily. People who lack empathy are never satisfying in relationships. Some can be cruel, even dangerous. Some are just unpleasant and don't care about the anyone outside themselves, including loving parents. And this wounds. It is very hard what we learn to accept and sometimes try to see as normal. I don't believe that all of our kids love us but treat us terribly. I believe kids like Kay, who is really far from a kid, can not love. That is how she can treat us as she does. To me and my husband, we believe now that what you see is reality. Reality that can put me in fetal position as I cry. [/QUOTE]
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