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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752844" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I don't know why these particular young people act so hatefully. Kay abuses me because she loves me and wants to pull away but be sure I'm okay without her? That is not something that resonates. I wish it did. It would at least be a crumb.</p><p></p><p> I actually think it's about them, not us. They pick on us to hurt them because THEY hurt and misery loves company. And they know we will love them and put up with the abuse....until some of us don't anymore.</p><p></p><p>I am not at all convinced that all of them care about our welfare, even subconsciously. My experience with two normal kids is that they are NICE to us and help us and are concerned about us if they care about our welfare. How can they love us yet abuse us? Is it okay if a spouse says he loves us (and maybe thinks he does) but abuses us? I don't buy into abuse ever being about a healthy, normal love. Sick love, sure.</p><p></p><p>Our kids who bring us here are.....not acting like normal young adults who have empathy and love us. If I hadn't had more kids, I would not have known what a normal parent/ child love is. </p><p></p><p>When Amy was born I thought that maybe something was wrong with her because she slept a lot and didn't cry much. How sad is that?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752844, member: 23706"] I don't know why these particular young people act so hatefully. Kay abuses me because she loves me and wants to pull away but be sure I'm okay without her? That is not something that resonates. I wish it did. It would at least be a crumb. I actually think it's about them, not us. They pick on us to hurt them because THEY hurt and misery loves company. And they know we will love them and put up with the abuse....until some of us don't anymore. I am not at all convinced that all of them care about our welfare, even subconsciously. My experience with two normal kids is that they are NICE to us and help us and are concerned about us if they care about our welfare. How can they love us yet abuse us? Is it okay if a spouse says he loves us (and maybe thinks he does) but abuses us? I don't buy into abuse ever being about a healthy, normal love. Sick love, sure. Our kids who bring us here are.....not acting like normal young adults who have empathy and love us. If I hadn't had more kids, I would not have known what a normal parent/ child love is. When Amy was born I thought that maybe something was wrong with her because she slept a lot and didn't cry much. How sad is that? [/QUOTE]
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