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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 486007" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>At that point, I am really doubting her diagnosis. But I know she based her diagnosis on several observations... we talked to her for 1 hour (all 3: husband, V and myself) and kept him for 45min to run the tests, finally talked to all of us again for about 1 hour. Whatever V is, he is definitely high functioning in the sense that he does not stand out to the untrained eye. </p><p>I have inquired about respite, but since we have no "good" diagnosis (sensory processing disorder (SPD) often not recognized) I doubt we will get it. I'll ask the behaviorist and see if she can make a referral. I know that my stress makes things worst for V, it's like being caught in a vicious circle and it takes a lot of energy and good karma to break it. I need to spend some quality time with him to restore things, but I need a break from him at the same time. </p><p>If the behaviorist is not too lousy, maybe she can give some idea on restoring our relationship that stress is damaging everyday. I need to stay practical, because let's be realistic: V will not change even if he wants to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 486007, member: 11847"] At that point, I am really doubting her diagnosis. But I know she based her diagnosis on several observations... we talked to her for 1 hour (all 3: husband, V and myself) and kept him for 45min to run the tests, finally talked to all of us again for about 1 hour. Whatever V is, he is definitely high functioning in the sense that he does not stand out to the untrained eye. I have inquired about respite, but since we have no "good" diagnosis (sensory processing disorder (SPD) often not recognized) I doubt we will get it. I'll ask the behaviorist and see if she can make a referral. I know that my stress makes things worst for V, it's like being caught in a vicious circle and it takes a lot of energy and good karma to break it. I need to spend some quality time with him to restore things, but I need a break from him at the same time. If the behaviorist is not too lousy, maybe she can give some idea on restoring our relationship that stress is damaging everyday. I need to stay practical, because let's be realistic: V will not change even if he wants to. [/QUOTE]
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