Thank you Janet. I haven't mailed it yet but will in a bit.
I have always been the one to try and bring difficult child down to earth when he announces some of his loftly ideas of what he is going to do with his life. I don't believe that handicapped indivituals should focus on the unatainable. Unfortunately my trying to steer difficult child toward more attainable goals has always been seen as not believing in him, stifiling him, etc. I also don't believe that he should be avoiding what he truly needs to do because he thinks he is going to get in the service.
